I need a new family

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02 Jan 2012, 3:06 am

Seriously, I need a more normal family. Mine is full of narcissists, abusers, psychopaths, infantile a**holes who think they know everything because they have a degree, but still act like abusive teenagers. I struggle to makes sense of their behavior, but they can't articulate why they hate certain other members. They even stole an inheritance (long story, don't ask). When I disengage to avoid getting suicidal, they play the victim.

It's more than dysfunctional. It's pure insanity. Even people who marry into this family say they've never seen anything like it. If there is a God, I pray to find a more stable supportive group of people to integrate into.

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02 Jan 2012, 1:02 pm

marry out

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02 Jan 2012, 1:06 pm

Family is overrated.

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02 Jan 2012, 1:57 pm

^ I don't know about that...

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02 Jan 2012, 2:10 pm

I'd sell you mine, but I'm rather fond of the ones that can cook.

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02 Jan 2012, 2:13 pm

jmnixon95 wrote:

^ I don't know about that...

Yeah, you're right. Family is important to me. It's just too bad I'm not all that important to them.

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02 Jan 2012, 2:13 pm

If you hate your family, just stop seeing them. Spend more time with friends instead.

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02 Jan 2012, 2:14 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

jmnixon95 wrote:

^ I don't know about that...

Yeah, you're right. Family is important to me. It's just too bad I'm not all that important to them.

I'm sorry to hear that.

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02 Jan 2012, 2:15 pm

jmnixon95 wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

jmnixon95 wrote:

^ I don't know about that...

Yeah, you're right. Family is important to me. It's just too bad I'm not all that important to them.

I'm sorry to hear that.

Most of them are toxic anyway. It's okay, though, I get on without them.

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02 Jan 2012, 4:24 pm

My ex's family is crazy like that. My son says they should've auditioned for Jerry Springer.

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02 Jan 2012, 10:15 pm

I feel lucky to have a good family.

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02 Jan 2012, 10:42 pm

Asp-Z wrote:

If you hate your family, just stop seeing them. Spend more time with friends instead.

That is assuming that the OP has friends. I know that I don't.

I could never leave my family unless they tried to cannibalize me or something like that.
My family are the only humans I have but we hurt each other too much.

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03 Jan 2012, 12:37 am

artrat wrote:

Asp-Z wrote:

If you hate your family, just stop seeing them. Spend more time with friends instead.

That is assuming that the OP has friends. I know that I don't.

I do, but but I still want a supportive family I can fall back on, or at least a remotely normal one. When I used all those awful nouns in the original post, I wasn't exaggerating.

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03 Jan 2012, 3:07 am

OneStepBeyond wrote:

marry out

I was actually going to say~ "find a girl to marry & try to become active with her family instead of doing stuff with yours".
I'm lucky that my family isn't really that bad even thou we never had a close relationship.

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