ghostar wrote:
I cannot seem to understand why my NT female friends seem to have their self-esteem impacted negatively by attractive young women in advertisements/commercials/etc.. This seems to be why the adverts work on them i.e. they go out and buy whatever product is being advertised by the scantily clad young women.
I can, however, understand the message being imparted by a Pizza Hut commercial right at dinner time. Presenting images of yummy food when people are likely already hungry is genius marketing in my opinion.
Being hypersocial animals, people go out of their way to do that which society celebrates, and shun that which society condemns. Nor does it matter whether something is right or wrong, good or bad. If people see others doing something, they want to do it too.
The archetypal line about being an individual is the young kid asking his mother for permission to do something crazy. The mother is horrified and says NO! The kid invariably says, "but mom, all the other kids are doing it". Mom retorts: If all the other kids were jumping off bridges, would you jump off too?
Unfortunately, this is supposed to be a rhetorical question, but is not. If all the other kids are jumping off bridges, this kid will do it too. And if all the mothers are jumping off bridges, the mother will do the same.
It's human nature that there are three groups of people: Those who can defy social norms because they have high social status--the trendsetters; those who would rather die than be different--the sheep; and those with low social status who defy social norms--aspies and eccentrics.
Because I definitely fit into the latter category, I find advertising very annoying. I know what I want already, and don't need any suggestions.