I offended an online friend when I asked him if he was still lurking here. He just joined and he is from Holland. He is not on the spectrum. he then asked me why am I so nasty to him and I said I was not. Then we argue about the word and I said it was just a word and nothing wrong with it. He said in Holland a lurker is bad and he is not bad. I said it was just an internet term for someone who reads and doesn't post.
So have you ever heard of this word being bad in some countries and meaning something different? He told me what it meant over there.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.