I think that the reason that our theories of the universe make it really big, really big but getting smaller, or really big and getting bigger is that, try as we may, the human mind cannot full grasp infinity. Sure, we can understand the concept that something does not end or even have a beginning, but only as long as we don't think too hard about it. I know, I've tried. I start to think about the infinite vastness of just the universe that I can see with my eyes and have heard of thanks to the research of astronomers, and my imagination only stretches so far. By about galaxy thirty or fourty I start to feel dizzy. After that, the only way i can imagine farther is if I just accept that it does go farther and not actually try to truely comprehend it. This is basically true for everyone, though I do invite you to try it (it is a very interesting experience). We can't comprehend a truely infinite universe (especially a timeless one), let alone try to scientifically explain one, so we have decided that since we couldn't figure it out that way, we'd make up our own story about it beacuse it's much easier that way.
If you do start to try to think about the vastness of space and the universe (or it's origins, but that's a bit off topic) I recommend a healthy dose of stargazing. Even if you are only just out of range of that street-lamp, look up--it's beautiful (For those of you who tend to the more literal side of things, I recomend only trying this at night and outside, and as far away from any light source as is convenient).
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Live long and prosper.
-Spock