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05 Jan 2013, 5:27 pm

...that you're the only autistic person in the world? For example I'm here right now and I can make an effort to understand what others are writing and relate to it (i.e. cognitively reach the conclusion that I experienced similar events and feelings) but give it some time and I barely feel the same way anymore, forgetting there are others currently experiencing some of the same problems as me right at this very instant.



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05 Jan 2013, 5:32 pm

I guess I kind of used to be like that, before I joined the forum or more importantly, met autistics in real life.

The feeling of finally speaking to people who understood, both online and offline, was great for a little while, but recently I've felt just as alien at the autistic meet-ups, and even right here on Wrong Planet, as I normally do in daily life.
I know I'm not the only one with some of these issues, heck, I even know some people have it worse than I, but at the same time I have trouble connecting.


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05 Jan 2013, 5:34 pm

Your description reminds me of my first day here. "Oh that's fantastic, everybody is just like me" and then later "Oh wait, how do we talk, this isn't working".