Rude about this girl!

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When I was 5 my late grandmother was rude about her lodger behind her back telling me "uhh she was up on the staircase yesterday sulking". She did not say this in a sympathetic way but in a moaning way about her lodger.

What do you think this could indicate about what kind of person my grandmother was?

It's really hard to guess what kind of person your grandmother was from only one incident.

When someone bad-mouths someone else behind his/her back, I tend to feel that the person who said it has a mean side and I feel I should be wary of that person.

Having said that, you are her grandson and she surely would more openly tell you things that she wouldn't to others, though you were little. Also it's possible that the lodger was indeed an annoying/inconsiderate/horrible kind of person and your grandmother couldn't help talking negatively about her.