Men who drive automatic are "p*****s"?? :(

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18 May 2012, 6:18 am

Well?? Why do men who can drive only automatic cars, like me, get responses like "p****", "Grandma", etc.

C'mon people be more mature.... (I didn't get that response personally but it's pretty common for many men). It's so stupid. Sometime I wish I was a woman. Men are generally expected to achieve more, a high salary job, a good house, be savvy with how to repair everything.... While if a woman is unemployed it's considered "ok" because she has to take care of the children, laundry, cooking etc. I mean I ain't a chauvinist - I advocate the 50-50 method.... but c'mon those conservative "primitive" men are annoying me! dang it XD



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18 May 2012, 6:21 am

I always thought my dad was a homosexual, thanks for confirming it.



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18 May 2012, 6:23 am

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I always thought my dad was a homosexual, thanks for confirming it.


Well I'm straight as hell.... so.. was that a joke or what?

I am not even feminine... as it may sound from my post, I'm not at all. But still....



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18 May 2012, 6:29 am

Chummy wrote:
Uprising wrote:
I always thought my dad was a homosexual, thanks for confirming it.


Well I'm straight as hell.... so.. was that a joke or what?

I am not even feminine... as it may sound from my post, I'm not at all. But still....

I was talking about my dads case lol, he's a prissy queen.



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18 May 2012, 6:46 am

What a sweeping generalization. I can't remember the last time I've seen someone drive stick since my dad had his trooper he brought in '89.

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C'mon people be more mature.... (I didn't get that response personally but it's pretty common for many men). It's so stupid. Sometime I wish I was a woman. Men are generally expected to achieve more, a high salary job, a good house, be savvy with how to repair everything.... While if a woman is unemployed it's considered "ok" because she has to take care of the children, laundry, cooking etc. I mean I ain't a chauvinist - I advocate the 50-50 method.... but c'mon those conservative "primitive" men are annoying me! dang it XD


Real feminists point this double standard out, gender roles and stuff are holding our society behind. Too bad so many people are soured to real feminism (which equates to true equality for both sexes) because of nutso insane people who are very vocal about man hating which actually has nothing to do with it.



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18 May 2012, 7:50 am

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I can't remember the last time I've seen someone drive stick since my dad had his trooper he brought in '89.


Me either. :? This must be an Israeli thing.



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18 May 2012, 7:55 am

I know what you mean. It is a very silly generalization. I only drive automatic, since both our family cars have that transmission. I can drive a manual, but I probably will have to get my own car if I want to be behind the wheel of one soon. My dad isn't a great driver, and my mom hasn't driven a manual in years, hence it being the transmission of choice for my parents. We had these cars before I got my license, so I guess I'm stuck with it, but i don't see it as something to be ashamed of. If people think that that make me less of a man, then that's just stupid. I mean what am I supposed to do? Put myself into debt trying to get another car, just so that I'm seen in a better way. :?



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18 May 2012, 8:11 am

scubasteve wrote:
NeueZiel wrote:
I can't remember the last time I've seen someone drive stick since my dad had his trooper he brought in '89.


Me either. :? This must be an Israeli thing.


Haha lol :)) TBH 80-90% cars here are automatic.... I heard you Americans like automatics too... while EU people like manual. Is that true that in America if you pass your test on automatic car you are actually allowed to drive manual? because here there is that stupid restriction.... XD

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You're so right, but I have the terrible trait of caring too much of what ppl think of me. IDK if that's a trait of AS but I'm just sooo envious at everyone :P



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18 May 2012, 8:15 am

Chummy wrote:
scubasteve wrote:
NeueZiel wrote:
I can't remember the last time I've seen someone drive stick since my dad had his trooper he brought in '89.


Me either. :? This must be an Israeli thing.


Haha lol :)) TBH 80-90% cars here are automatic.... I heard you Americans like automatics too... while EU people like manual. Is that true that in America if you pass your test on automatic car you are actually allowed to drive manual? because here there is that stupid restriction.... XD

Yes, you are... If you can find one. :)



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18 May 2012, 8:16 am

Its the same in the UK as well, driving manual is meant to be the "manly" way. Its funny as if you were to go across the pond and drive a manual then you would be the strange one, I enjoy these funny little cultural differences :lol: I don't really like driving but if I did end up with a car it would be one I would want and be happy with, anyone who associates masculinity with a method of transportation has issues of their own imo! Only downside to an automatic is that it is less fuel efficient and costs more to fix if anything goes wrong.



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18 May 2012, 8:17 am

I don't plan on racing my car anytime soon, I'm just trying to get from point A to point B, so I have no need for a manual transmission. It's just another thing to have to deal with when you're driving. If only using antediluvian technology makes you a real man, then I guess I'll stick to being a p****. Also, what does this have to do with politics? It always annoys me when people try to inject politics into conversations that have no correlation. People have different opinions on how the government should be run, get over it.


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18 May 2012, 8:24 am

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I don't plan on racing my car anytime soon, I'm just trying to get from point A to point B, so I have no need for a manual transmission. It's just another thing to have to deal with when you're driving. If only using antediluvian technology makes you a real man, then I guess I'll stick to being a p****. Also, what does this have to do with politics? It always annoys me when people try to inject politics into conversations that have no correlation. People have different opinions on how the government should be run, get over it.


You are the only one who thinks this discussion is political.



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18 May 2012, 8:31 am

First time i drove stick was with someone who doesnt even have a license. Does that make me supermanly?



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18 May 2012, 8:31 am

Chummy wrote:
but c'mon those conservative "primitive" men are annoying me!


It's not a political discussion, but you felt the need to inject politics. Quit with the splitting and realize that there are fine people on both sides of the isle and many more standing in the middle.


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18 May 2012, 8:32 am

MXH wrote:
First time i drove stick was with someone who doesnt even have a license. Does that make me supermanly?

Do you drive better than him now?



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18 May 2012, 8:34 am

EstimatedProphet wrote:
Chummy wrote:
but c'mon those conservative "primitive" men are annoying me!


It's not a political discussion, but you felt the need to inject politics. Quit with the splitting and realize that there are fine people on both sides of the isle and many more standing in the middle.


LOL, I am not an American.... so I didn't mean conservative "politically".... but only specifically to this subject. Back off of me or I call mod.

BTW, I'm quite leaning towards right-winged myself....