arielhawksquill wrote:
Wow, no way, I can't imagine ever doing this. Don't people lock their doors where you live? Walking into someone else's apartment is likely to get you shot in some places.
Lots of people don't lock their doors. It's all about perception along with location perhaps. I live in a totally different world than most people. I usually don't lock my doors. It doesn't cross my mind that anything bad can happen and it never has. I have, when I owned a car, left my wallet in the car all the time, left money in the car, unlocked, never having a problem. My 80yo mother leaves her door unlocked most of the time. People may think me insane but I believe your thoughts create your world. If you fixate your thoughts on negativity, it is to me like a magnetic force attracting negativity into your life. I have not always lived like this, but since I took this approach to life I have noticed that my life is virtually free from things like what you are thinking would be the consequence of being unsecured. It works for me, anyway. And now my rhetorical thread has turned philosophical, but my mind does this sometimes.
I just try not to think about bad things. I guess I'm lucky.