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infilove
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19 May 2014, 10:37 am

Do you often more frustrated when something frustrating happens but your not aware of it yet and it dawns on you later. I.E. someone says something mean or not nice to you and you later in it finally "clicks in" and you realize what that person said to you was mean? Or say someone promised to do something that was fun and you ended not doing it and later realized that you missed out on something fun that you were supposed to experience at that time. I often find in these kind of examples I often feel more upset then if I realized it when it happened. Do you often find this to be the case too?


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26 May 2014, 6:36 pm

infilove wrote:
Do you often more frustrated when something frustrating happens but your not aware of it yet and it dawns on you later. I.E. someone says something mean or not nice to you and you later in it finally "clicks in" and you realize what that person said to you was mean? Or say someone promised to do something that was fun and you ended not doing it and later realized that you missed out on something fun that you were supposed to experience at that time. I often find in these kind of examples I often feel more upset then if I realized it when it happened. Do you often find this to be the case too?

hiya :) that is my story also.



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26 May 2014, 6:43 pm

I CONSTANTLY have conversations and think I understand them. But. as time passes, I realize other meanings that were more likely.
Subtly isn't lost on me completely... but, it does take awhile to sink in.



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26 May 2014, 6:45 pm

Man......that happens to me too often...sometimes to my utter regret and embarrassment.



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30 May 2014, 10:53 am

MissDorkness wrote:
I CONSTANTLY have conversations and think I understand them. But. as time passes, I realize other meanings that were more likely.
Subtly isn't lost on me completely... but, it does take awhile to sink in.


Exactly, it's like it takes more time to process and make sense of information and with some situations the thought process will complete when it's too late.


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30 May 2014, 10:56 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Man......that happens to me too often...sometimes to my utter regret and embarrassment.


Yeah it can make me feel very regretful especially when it's something I could have said that could have made something really good happen! I agree that it can be embarrassing too, like if there was something you were supposed to say making a situation awkward and then you realize it later. Then your like "WOW- I can't believe I didn't did or didn't do xwy" and then you know you'll feel embarrassed the next time you see the people involved.


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