When someone does not allow you to something, you can allow

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When someone does not allow you to something, you can allow youself.

I'm adult, but i noticed that often aspie teen, and young adult, are not premited the same amount of freedom, as younger peers.

For exemple when i was young i was on summer camp for ADHD and kids, it was sponsored by NFZ (it's like NHS in britain) it was there evry yaer (from 13-to 18 years old), When someone was good boy or girl, by doing chores you even was allowed to go outside of camp unacpomiended, you need acumulte some of points.

I was enugh points to have to get permant leave(but it was not guranted, but almost al get it), go explore nearby forest surroundings area unacompained.

I don't get it, but i eloaborated clevear plan, the director a woman, a nice woman btw, told me she not give premsion because i have asperger, and she worry about me i had 16 than, i have maximum amunt of this stupid points, and most of f*****s younger than me get it
Miss Dr. said she go to psychiatric scinece conference, and ask us to not blow the camp in her absence
She said that now in charge for few days will be her deputy, a guy he was also nice also quite roundy if you know what i mean

So i take my chance i go to his office and said.
Hi doctor.... the head doctor forget to sign me leave, could you sign?
Sure when i should sign

And i get leave. At first I felt pride, but then I was ashamed.

Speaking about doctor once said.

When doctor return was little mad at me, but not rescind my leave, latter said that when i turn 18 i should selling insurance for the PZU (Polish State owned insurance company)

"It's a basic truth of the human condition that everybody lies"

That was on of my teen mischief when i was kid

I wonder why many treat aspies, adult aspies like kid.

I know with my mom, she pretty much tried to baby me about everything. Still does to this day, but I've learned how to bypass and ignore it.