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24 Aug 2020, 12:58 am

How long should you wait before deleting a post due to no replies?



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24 Aug 2020, 3:23 am

I forget what the exact time limits are, but...

The time window that this site allows you to delete a post is very short. And it's much shorter than the length of time it takes to assess whether or not your post will get replies.

So it's a moot question.

Just post, and dont worry about it.

Ive seen folks start threads that will get NO replies for days. Then suddenly a whole string replies appears. So you never know.



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24 Aug 2020, 10:16 am

Thanks for your reply. I've never been much good at getting replies . I don't have the knack.



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24 Aug 2020, 11:31 am

If the only problem is lack of replies, it's not really worth deleting over as it will just disappear into the ether.

If it's embarrassment, that's more of a problem with the whole 'can't delete anything' thing.

I think that makes the site good for the honesty we like as autistic people but bad if we're afraid to make faux pas - something which is quite common if you're autistic & commonly worried about if you're socially anxious like me.


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24 Aug 2020, 11:38 am

Last I knew, 5 hours was the limit on editing a post.  The same limit was on deleting a post, but only if no one replied to it.

But Alex has been making adjustments lately, so maybe the time-limit has changed.

Personally, if no one responds to a post, no one is under any obligation to delete it.



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24 Aug 2020, 12:06 pm

Must be an embarrassment issue for him.

Ive started threads that got no response. Everyone does.



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24 Aug 2020, 12:19 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
Must be an embarrassment issue for him.

Ive started threads that got no response. Everyone does.


It's more of an anxiety/fear/insecurity driven issue. A feeling that that kind of thing means I'm not wanted here.



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24 Aug 2020, 5:25 pm

I think everyone feels that way on here sometimes. That or my SA was playing up when I felt like it.

One thing to remember is that it's not like social media or like a text. People take ages to reply on here. Over a day is normal.


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