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see these incels that some of them are on the spectrum and they have 5 problems they need to fix. first they don’t improve themselves, just because u think your a 5 doesn’t mean u can’t be a 6 by working out, dressing better and learning to be a smooth talker. A lot of my fellow aspies ( yes I’m on the spectrum) don’t understand this and blame the girls, but I tell them A.

They need to fix how they dress, B lose weight, C. Don’t stalk and try to build up the courage to talk to the girl it’s not appropriate. As an aspie I’ve been very successful with women cuz I learned from my mistakes and took notes from others in addition I put myself in situations that made me uncomfortable like joining a frat.

I tell fellow aspies that your not guarenteed anything, You have to bring something to the table. Some listen some don’t but the ones that listen and take my advice become successful, being an incel and getting angry and shooting up schools is a failure and is pathetic in my book (granted there not all aspies). No aspie should do this because its a waste and you have the skills needed you just need to master them and you make your fellow comrade aspies look bad in the media.

For instance I don’t mean to brag but I’ve been where most have u have been but I put that anger towards improving myself and now I’ve had sex more than 70% of my peers even ones not on the spectrum you get what u put into my 4 years of waiting and building having given rewards that have payed off, by going to the gym, dressing better, learning to be a smooth talker, seeing a therapist, getting on medication, trying new things, even tho being an aspie it’s hard, but u gotta push through it if u fail keep trying.

If u get rejected by a girl try someone else don’t even think about the rejection just say well thank god I didn’t waste my time. what im saying is regardless of our shortcomings as aspies once u learn how to talk to women its so easy my, NT frat brothers and NT friends were always asking how i did it and I told them if U have aspergers and learn its the easiest thing ever.
When talking to girls its a script and an instinct if anyone wants me and if any aspies that are angry and hopeless when it comes to dating and keeping a job please email me before u do something ret*d. Im a Psych major and Ive gotten ahead in life because ive learned how to become an apex person and having Aspergers isn't a bad thing, if u learn a system like i did u can outsmart NTs because in my opinion we have something the NT's don't but our problem is we give up to early and don't take advice as I said above I have had sex with more women than 70% of my age population( even NT,s according to statistics).

If u take my advice it becomes second nature. For instance on tinder I have 300 matches because A. I dress nice B. My bio is tailored made to get women from what I learned in the past. C in the bedroom ive learned to make the girl orgasm first as she will tell her friends and they will come to you its all a game and if anyone wants to know more email me. I consider myself an 8.5 out of 10 but one of my aspie friends was a 4.5 out of 10 (according to him) but I helped him out clothing wise and hygiene wise and hairstyle wise and now hes a 7/10 and gets laid pretty consistently.
He was a member of the incel website and once I helped him he told them to f**k off. If your willing to take advice and criticism and follow my advice I guarantee u, u will become an ace. our kind on the spectrum can excel at this. everyone on this website is capable just email me and tell me your problem and ill tell you solutions however its all up to you.
Let me tell you I am tired of being looked down upon the media thinks we are all like sheldons( I hate that show) when in fact we are all different for instance here https://www.fbherald.com/community/auti ... fe8bd.html the guy in that white shirt is me. Do you know what one person said to me after the event she said that she was suprised that I was able to be so confident when people asked if I had a GF. Like apparently people on the spectrum can't have GFs this is what we are dealing with my brothers and sisters we need to organize and show the world who we really are.

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Yea.... Losing weight and becoming more comfortable in social settings are great ideas for those who have the means to do so, but there are plenty of other great reasons to do both of these things that have nothing to do with promiscuity [no judgement]. I'm above the so-called "average" bar on that activity for AS myself, but I don't see it as anything to be proud of... sexual relationships aren't conquests, and believe me most of the "male role models" I had growing up either insinuated that women/relationships were things to be conquered or flat out SAID that "a guy your age should be getting laid more often". Honestly, I'm way more proud of being 70 lbs lighter and more comfortable speaking publicly at 37 years old than I am of the number of exes I've had. I dig your energy, but I feel that it could be directed to more productive areas of personal development. At this point in my life, I'd be much happier to make a very good friend than I would just to spend time alone with somebody in bed. Again, no judgement, that's just me.