Discriminated because you are on your own?

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22 Jul 2021, 10:51 am

In bars and nightclubs etc why do security/door staff sometimes discriminate against people who are on there own and not in a group?

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22 Jul 2021, 10:54 am

I have absolutely no idea. It makes no sense at all.

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22 Jul 2021, 11:12 am

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In bars and nightclubs etc., why do security/door staff sometimes discriminate against people who are on their own and not in a group?

Single guys are disfavored because they tend to stay alone all night and that brings down the energy (e.g., no one likes a "mopey dope"), and brooding males add ambiance only to goth clubs.

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22 Jul 2021, 11:13 am

Fnord wrote:

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In bars and nightclubs etc., why do security/door staff sometimes discriminate against people who are on their own and not in a group?

Single guys are disfavored because they tend to stay alone all night and that brings down the energy (e.g., no one likes a "mopey dope"), and brooding males add ambiance only to goth clubs.

What about a woman who is by herself all night?

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22 Jul 2021, 11:19 am

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

In bars and nightclubs etc., why do security/door staff sometimes discriminate against people who are on their own and not in a group?

Single guys are disfavored because they tend to stay alone all night and that brings down the energy (e.g., no one likes a "mopey dope"), and brooding males add ambiance only to goth clubs.

What about a woman who is by herself all night?

Single women are favored (especially the young, attractive ones), because they will quickly be absorbed into another group. This makes everyone happy (except the mopey dope in the corner).

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22 Jul 2021, 11:25 am

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

In bars and nightclubs etc., why do security/door staff sometimes discriminate against people who are on their own and not in a group?

Single guys are disfavored because they tend to stay alone all night and that brings down the energy (e.g., no one likes a "mopey dope"), and brooding males add ambiance only to goth clubs.

What about a woman who is by herself all night?

Single women are favored (especially the young, attractive ones), because they will quickly be absorbed into another group. This makes everyone happy (except the mopey dope in the corner).

If life was a video game than being a man would definitely be like playing on hard mode. :lol:

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22 Jul 2021, 11:29 am

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

In bars and nightclubs etc., why do security/door staff sometimes discriminate against people who are on their own and not in a group?

Single guys are disfavored because they tend to stay alone all night and that brings down the energy (e.g., no one likes a "mopey dope"), and brooding males add ambiance only to goth clubs.

What about a woman who is by herself all night?

Single women are favored (especially the young, attractive ones), because they will quickly be absorbed into another group. This makes everyone happy (except the mopey dope in the corner).

If life was a video game than being a man would be like playing on hard mode.

Why do you think the concept of "Wing-Men" was invented? A small group of men who look like they are having a good time at a club is more likely than a mopey-dope loner to attract women looking for a good time.

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22 Jul 2021, 11:31 am

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

In bars and nightclubs etc., why do security/door staff sometimes discriminate against people who are on their own and not in a group?

Single guys are disfavored because they tend to stay alone all night and that brings down the energy (e.g., no one likes a "mopey dope"), and brooding males add ambiance only to goth clubs.

What about a woman who is by herself all night?

Single women are favored (especially the young, attractive ones), because they will quickly be absorbed into another group. This makes everyone happy (except the mopey dope in the corner).

If life was a video game than being a man would be like playing on hard mode.

yeah true

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22 Jul 2021, 11:31 am

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

In bars and nightclubs etc., why do security/door staff sometimes discriminate against people who are on their own and not in a group?

Single guys are disfavored because they tend to stay alone all night and that brings down the energy (e.g., no one likes a "mopey dope"), and brooding males add ambiance only to goth clubs.

What about a woman who is by herself all night?

They don't have a much easier time, that's why they typically travel in herds just like the males.

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22 Jul 2021, 11:35 am

funeralxempire wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

In bars and nightclubs etc., why do security/door staff sometimes discriminate against people who are on their own and not in a group?

Single guys are disfavored because they tend to stay alone all night and that brings down the energy (e.g., no one likes a "mopey dope"), and brooding males add ambiance only to goth clubs.

What about a woman who is by herself all night?

They don't have a much easier time, that's why they typically travel in herds just like the males.

My dad told me that men who are on there own are treated with suspicioun

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22 Jul 2021, 11:37 am

Jamesy wrote:

funeralxempire wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

In bars and nightclubs etc., why do security/door staff sometimes discriminate against people who are on their own and not in a group?

Single guys are disfavored because they tend to stay alone all night and that brings down the energy (e.g., no one likes a "mopey dope"), and brooding males add ambiance only to goth clubs.

What about a woman who is by herself all night?

They don't have a much easier time, that's why they typically travel in herds just like the males.

My dad told me that men who are on there own are treated with suspicioun

I'm not suggesting that men don't face additional issues when they're on their own, I'm just saying a single person on their own often is viewed as unsuitable to be incorporated into fun group activities regardless of their gender.

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