Autism related overloaded amount of threads

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16 May 2023, 8:51 am

As you have seen, I created a large amount of threads lately and was curious to find out what you think about it, since I care alot about your feelings. It sure is related to my autism spectrum disorder.

Does it bother you, do you want me to stop, or are you okay with it?

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16 May 2023, 9:05 am

What do you mean, "It's related to my Autism Spectrum Disorder" ?


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16 May 2023, 9:13 am

Noam111g wrote:
As you have seen, I created a large amount of threads lately and was curious to find out what you think about it, since I care alot about your feelings. It sure is related to my autism spectrum disorder.

Does it bother you, do you want me to stop, or are you okay with it?

thank you


No, don't stop! It's good to have life brought back here, as it has become rather inactive lately - even the L&D has been quite quiet. 8O

This is what this forum is FOR, for discussion and support. So you're not doing anything wrong. Oh please continue making threads. I like posting and reading other people's posts. :heart:


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16 May 2023, 10:24 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
What do you mean, "It's related to my Autism Spectrum Disorder" ?

It means basically I tend to talk alot and enjoy many subjects.

Can you share your feelings about the threads? I care alot about your feelings, so its great if you can please share them.



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16 May 2023, 10:29 am

A lot of your threads seem to be the same core questions, about our experiences with pharmaceutical drugs, or pertaining to sex. Personally I'd prefer that the questions be clustered together in one big thread about medication or about sex and dating, but it's your choice how to post if you can keep up with the replies.

I've also noticed most of your questions seem to completely ignore the fact some members and some autistic people are female, non-binary, or not cis-males. You've posted things like "Do you like being a man?" (paraphrase) without acknowledging that all readers aren't men.

I'm not trying to be critical. I'm just very honest and those are my observations.


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16 May 2023, 6:14 pm

Meh.

The mere creation of topics solely for the sake of seeing how they are received seems manipulative to me.

Please stop.



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16 May 2023, 6:23 pm

Joe90 wrote:
Noam111g wrote:
As you have seen, I created a large amount of threads lately and was curious to find out what you think about it, since I care alot about your feelings. It sure is related to my autism spectrum disorder.

Does it bother you, do you want me to stop, or are you okay with it?

thank you


No, don't stop! It's good to have life brought back here, as it has become rather inactive lately - even the L&D has been quite quiet. 8O

This is what this forum is FOR, for discussion and support. So you're not doing anything wrong. Oh please continue making threads. I like posting and reading other people's posts. :heart:

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16 May 2023, 6:26 pm

Creating 11 threads in a short space of time is a bit excessive IMO because they tend to bury other threads and most of those 11 are rather low in content.



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16 May 2023, 6:27 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
A lot of your threads seem to be the same core questions, about our experiences with pharmaceutical drugs, or pertaining to sex. Personally I'd prefer that the questions be clustered together in one big thread about medication or about sex and dating, but it's your choice how to post if you can keep up with the replies.

I've also noticed most of your questions seem to completely ignore the fact some members and some autistic people are female, non-binary, or not cis-males. You've posted things like "Do you like being a man?" (paraphrase) without acknowledging that all readers aren't men.

I'm not trying to be critical. I'm just very honest and those are my observations.

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16 May 2023, 7:37 pm

At the very least I'd say you should try to space out how often you make threads a bit. You made ten threads within 90 minutes yesterday, that's a bit excessive.


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16 May 2023, 8:01 pm

Multiple rapid fire threads are fine.

But please do pace yourself.


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16 May 2023, 9:26 pm

No complaint from me so far. I've been rather enjoying the large-ish number of brand new threads, many of which were quite interesting to me. Frankly I hadn't even noticed they were all from the same OP until I read it here.

But I don't know if I'd feel the same way if you increased your output massively above what it has recently been - there may be a downside to that, though I have no idea what it would be.



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16 May 2023, 9:27 pm

Okay. First of all thank you all for sharing your thoughts and feelings about all the threads. I care alot about your thoughts and feelings and thats why I created this thread just for that. I'm naturally not a very sympathetic / empathic person due to my high functioning autism. However, I am trying to improve about that and thats why I made this thread, to improve my empathy. Yeah, sounds weird, but its true. I hope you are not shocked by that, and you are okay with that. Other than that, I'd like to tell you a few other things.

Basically, what I wanted to tell you also, is, sometimes I create threads out of boredom or out of curiousity to hear other people's opinions. Some questions have a very varied answer and can be answered in many different ways, but the main thing is, people look at things differently and thats why they think differently. Thats the beauty of creating a thread with a normal, simple question, and getting various different answers. Because, everyone looks at it in a different way and the answers become very varied thanks to that.

With all that being said, I dont regret creating the threads, because I believe I brought alot of much needed activity around the forums. However, in regards to our God Alex Plank, he might be angry about it right now. Who knows. If he is reading this, I hope he is okay with all the threads, and he wont delete them, or something of that nature. Talking about Alex Plank, does he still visit here from time to time?

Its just the same with the threads and the questions, you answer here in a very varied manner and the way you look at the threads shows how varied this community can be. Thats the beauty of the community here it seems, the fact its so varied. Just... wow. I'm basically glad I joined.

Kisses, mates. I gotta hurry to do a few important things. I have to see my Psychiatrist today and get a few things sorted out, and I'm also hungry, so I'll eat something on the way to my doctor. See you around of course. Big love. And yeah, the fact I care alot about your feelings and thoughts is real. Thats the reality. Its not a joke and you're not dreaming.