IsabellaLinton wrote:
I went to someone who had great reviews and was supposedly an expert.
He was a Naturopath by training so he was covered on my benefits for free.
I wanted to just see how it worked.
My main goal was to try to remember childhood memories - good or bad.
I went two or three times but it was a waste of time.
He put me in headphones in a dark room, and spoke to me on the headphones.
He kept giving me visualization prompts or telling me to visualize certain things.
That was so I could relax.
Duh, if I could do that I wouldn't have been there.
I have aphantasia so I can't picture things, even when they're familiar.
I can't control my thoughts or stay on track in a linear fashion either.
I'd try to think about what he was saying but go off on a mind-tangent.
The tangents were unrelated to my focus.
Blame ADHD for that, I guess.
Anyway, I got nothing out of it except frustration.
In the end he said my subconscious was clamped shut like an iron gate.
People with ASD or trauma have a hard time letting down their guard.
Another issue is that I was hyperaware of every little noise.
I could hear him breathing or moving, on my headphones.
Then I focused on that.
Blame hyperacusis and the fact I'm hyperalert all the time.
I believe it works for most people, but it didn't work for me.
Same with EMDR - which gave me a stroke.
Did he do any sort of assessment prior to see if you were a good candidate for hypnosis? It's my understanding that should be part of the process.
naturalplastic wrote:
Was sent to a hypnotist.
Nothing like Isabella's experience. Nothing like in the movies either.
The lady hypnotist started off by saying "IRL its not like in the movies".
Fully lit room. She just talked to me. When I talked about memories she said "you look off to the left...that means that the past on your left side". It different for different folks .
I guess I went "under" at some point without knowing it. Got a trick to deal with the issue I went there for.
Trouble is I would forget about the trick and forget to use for a couple months. Then started to use it. It helped.
This sounds like what I understand is the modern approach which relies more on subtle suggestion woven into conversation rather than direct suggestion via trance. Glad to hear it was effective.
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