Did anyone else use to be a gifted kid

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Cuz I used to be one and I feel like I still would have been one if it wasn’t for my love for “childish” things

That's me as well. I excelled academically and in some other areas up to my teens, but found the adult world increasingly difficult to negotiate and adapt to, eventually crashing and burning in my early 40s. I still see the world largely through the eyes of a 13 year old. Lol.

Allegedly.

I feel that on a spiritual level.

I was pulled into a gifted and talented school as a child, I read at a college level in early elementary school, scored great on tests, excelled in academics. These days I feel like a teen at best, wondering how anyone thought it was a good idea to let me run around adulting, but here I am doing it anyways. Lol. It's crazy to me, for how brilliant I was supposed to be... it never did me any damn good, and these days I'm so shot mentally, I'm spaced out a lot and flighty as all get out. You'd never know by looking at me that I was supposed to be smart. Go figure. My burnout in my adult years really took a toll on me.

Im lucky I got burnt out/ gave up early cuz I think ill be able to enjoy my childhood to the fullest

I certainly wasn't. I felt a bit of envy towards the gifted kids. I felt that if I was gifted, I wouldn't have been called a godtard by my peers and underestimated by my family.

I didn't get any sort of recognition for it, probably due to the learning issues. In retrospect, I don't know why it is that nobody thought it was odd that I was reading highschool science books and generally following what was going on just a year after being in a special ed pullout for reading.

I did but nobody believes me or cares except my mother

I was a gifted kid, but I made a conscious effort to diversify my interests to avoid the "savant" path. Now I'm under 3 years from retirement with a guarantee I'll never be bored.

That was definitely me. I was the classic "book smart but not street smart" kid who did very well academically but struggled big time socially.

I wasn't identified because such terminology didn't exist when I was in school.
I suspect these days I'd be considered twice-exceptional, meaning I have disabilities as well as gifts.
That's a toxic combo.

I was very far from gifted
I was ahead of my class in mathematics and technology as those were my interests at the time. I used to help the IT teacher when he was stuck.
I don't know when, but I fell behind in these areas, I know simple maths really well, but never got the hang of trigonometry.
I guess I got lazy, as I excelled for a few years I didn't really put in the effort needed for learning at a higher level.
If I could go back, I still probably wouldn't have honed those skills, as they are not needed in my adult day to day life.
I probably would have paid more attention in English, as a deficit in English is debilitating in today's language based world.

There's no reason to do that. It used to be believed that savant skills came at a social cost, but the reality is that they're independent, unless somebody is spending so much time on the skills that they aren't interacting with others, there's no basis for that belief. Spending time socializing others tends to eliminate that issue.

Likewise, the drive and need to develop that stuff doesn't just go away because you turn away from it any more than it does with stimming. Engaging in the area tends to make the other issues lesson.

Personally, I wish something was known about how ADHD impacts that as I've definitely got savant skill, it's just has been put into developing interests as quickly as humanly possible and I've got a massive archive of thoughts and ideas in my head at all times.

That's rather common. Early on in education you can get away with memorizing things and just doing what you were told to do, but as you get older, there's a lot more abstract things that are typically expected. It's one of the reasons why trying to identify the gifted students before the 8-10 year age range is bound to fail miserably. The most gifted tend to be just getting started whereas the ones that are "gifted" at that point tend to be just above average in adulthood.

Same here. I struggled majorly in school due to dyslexia & other various mental & physical disabilities. The one class I excelled in was General Business. My teacher taught two classes & I was the best student out of both. I made at least an A on every test & one report card was actually an A+. I guess I could say I was gifted in that one subject wile majorly struggling in half the others.