frankwah wrote:
So... I haven't done the calculations, but seeing as we're not hypergregarious, I see that we're much more likely to know that we exist through the Internet than by real life.
So do you know aspie in real life? And if you know aspies in real life, did you find them through the Internet? If you know aspies at all, how do you know them? (Probably through the Internet is my guess)
Don't knowingly know any people w/ASD's IRL, other than self. Haven't met anyone (in person) from internet (incl. WP), so guess that's for other folks to answer.
Suppose it depends on how extroverted (outgoing & goes out often) or introverted (possibly agoraphobic & socially anxious) any given "aspie" is-I'm the 2nd (phobic & shy) sort.
Once in public where one might encounter others w/same dx, there's no way to know without one or the other person "outing" oneself first. Haven't a universally understood symbolic signal to identify members with shared neurological status, at least not a highly visible one (tiny colored ribbon pins may not get noticed). Don't know that we all could even agree on a single nonverbal shorthand with which to know "hey, I saw 3 'people like me' today when walking down the street".
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