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Do you hate your family?
Parents only. 15%  15%  [ 6 ]
Yes. 15%  15%  [ 6 ]
not all the time, or not anymore 69%  69%  [ 27 ]
Total votes : 39

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28 Dec 2007, 3:30 am

I am cutting all ties with them after I graduate from college and become able to live on my own. Living with them is really affecting my mental state and it's going to take many years to recover in the future if I do recover.



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28 Dec 2007, 3:33 am

What about options for those who don't hate their family, or at least not all the time, or not anymore?


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28 Dec 2007, 3:35 am

Oops. I left that option out and don't know how to include it now.



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28 Dec 2007, 3:59 am

:cry:


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28 Dec 2007, 5:13 am

I don't hate my parents, I just don't care about them.
They irritate me sometimes.



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28 Dec 2007, 6:50 am

There's no NO option.

My family are nice if a little dim sometimes.


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28 Dec 2007, 8:47 am

I don't. They just sometimes fail to understand me...



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28 Dec 2007, 8:50 am

I don't hate my family. I don't hate my mother. I wasn't a fan of dad, but I didn't hate him.

I didn't hate them as a teenager either. Now as an old lady, and a parent, I can understand why my mother did the things she did. It is hard to see this as a child, but it does make sense as an adult.

I'm sure you will see that when you are an adult.



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28 Dec 2007, 9:59 am

sort30030 wrote:
I want my parents to die. I am cutting all ties with them after I graduate from college and become able to live on my own. Living with them is really affecting my mental state and it's going to take many years to recover in the future if I do recover.


Perhaps you are only speaking figuratively.

Are your parents footing the bill for your college education? I don't know how old you are so it's not clear if you are living with them because you are a minor and have no choice, or whether you are a young adult and live with them because it's convenient. If they are causing you so much grief and affecting your mental state to the degree that you want them to die, maybe you should try to find other living arrangements, for your sake and theirs. However, if you are being abused mentally, emotionally, physically or sexually, talk to someone about it and get yourself out of that situation.

No, I have never hated my parents to the degree of wishing any harm on them. I have been angry with them, annoyed with them, contemptuous of them at times. And I'm sure there have been times when they felt the same toward me. They did a lot of stupid things, but so did I. They also gave me life and worked very hard to provide for my basic needs before I was able to do that for myself.

PS - If you want to add another option or options, go to your original post and click edit. Go to the bottom to the poll section and add option or options.



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28 Dec 2007, 10:10 am

i dont hate my parents... but i hate the fact they barely understand my autistic condition...


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28 Dec 2007, 10:12 am

I don't hate my parents i just find it hard 2 get a long wid dem.



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28 Dec 2007, 10:53 am

ii love them most of the time


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28 Dec 2007, 11:55 am

parents only.


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28 Dec 2007, 1:53 pm

No I don't hate my family, no matter what hurtful things they have ever done to me and will continue to do. I still love them no matter what.



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28 Dec 2007, 2:41 pm

sort30030 wrote:
I want my parents to die. If I am able to keep myself calm enough to not kill them in the next few years, I am cutting all ties with them after I graduate from college and become able to live on my own. Living with them is really affecting my mental state and it's going to take many years to recover in the future if I do recover.


Wow. I guess it's better to cut ties with them than to cut their throats. Personally, I love my parents, though sometimes I hate my dad for his alcoholic tendencies.



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28 Dec 2007, 2:42 pm

I adore my family members, especially my parents.