Joined: 8 Mar 2006 Age: 49 Gender: Male Posts: 4,875 Location: Earth
18 Jul 2008, 3:35 pm
This is almost unanimous, that Aspies are picked last (by their peers/other kids). Well add me to this unanimousness.
About the only time I remember NOT being picked last - and actually I was picked pretty early - was when we were doing hockey in PE. Not ice hockey, but field hockey.
Actually it wasn't even a field, we played on a blaes pitch.
Obviously field hockey (or blaes hockey in this case) was seen as a girly game, and this was why I was picked quite early. It wasn't a compliment.
But there is no logical reason why being an Aspie would be girly, nor any logical reason why Aspies are any better at hockey than the football (soccer) or rugby we normally played.
Joined: 17 Jul 2007 Age: 42 Gender: Male Posts: 1,799
18 Jul 2008, 3:38 pm
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But there is no logical reason why being an Aspie would be girly, nor any logical reason why Aspies are any better at hockey than the football (soccer) or rugby we normally played.
Thank goodness - I'll punch anyone who calls me a girl (or at least I'll think about doing it). The fact that I am a girl is entirely irrelevant when coming up with reasons for why you feel I should be called a girl
severe asthma, outdoor and indoor allergies, severe clumsiness, inability to socialize very well, and popular girls who were always team leaders because they sucked up to the teacher
I wasn't always picked last - sometimes I wasn't picked at all (and got to go read elsewhere)
Joined: 27 Aug 2006 Age: 64 Gender: Female Posts: 7 Location: London
19 Jul 2008, 6:37 am
Nobody ever wanted me on their team and I was always picked last. This was because I was unpopular; they thought I was weird and really unsociable, and also because I was probably the worst in the whole school at sports. I am un-coordinated and couldn't throw or catch a ball, couldn't hit a ball with a bat and they said I 'ran funny'. The team that got landed with me used to complain that I was making them lose. They thought I just wasn't trying, and that was one more thing they could pick on me for.
The one thing that I really dreaded was being asked by the teacher to pick a team; nobody would have wanted to be in my team, and I wouldn't have had the nerve to pick anyone. Fortunately it never happened.
I was usually one of 2 kids routinely picked last for any kind of gym-related event. I couldn't hit a baseball or catch it. I didn't throw well. I couldn't kick well, either. I suck at basketball. I could only do one thing really well--- run ( which was important when you had to escape bullies). So I did do well at races against other kids.
Joined: 26 Aug 2006 Age: 63 Gender: Male Posts: 1,576 Location: Paisley,Scotland UK
23 Jul 2008, 4:47 pm
I was usually picked last for football (soccer) teams,despite the fact I often confounded
them by actually being not bad at playing it.Seems that ability didn't make up for being a
social misfit !
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Joined: 17 Feb 2007 Age: 34 Gender: Female Posts: 11
24 Jul 2008, 7:25 pm
In elementary school we weren't allowed to pick teams. Then in middle school I had no friends and was picked last (after the unathetic kids). Then in high school people decided I was funny and semi-athletic and I got picked after 1/3 of the picks.