Incident on Holiday!

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10 years ago when me and my family were on holiday in greece my brother (who was 9 years old at the time) as usual my brother was bullying me partly because my AS made me valunrable. i was sitting on the bed in the hotel room with my farther (who was 43 at the time) and my farther said to me "Go on James attack him back" i then beat my younger brother infront of my farther who was sitting thier watching us fight on the bed. he did split us up eventually and i hurt my brother and winded him. my dad was in a way kind of congragulated me on standing up for myself and hurting my brother.

I was 11 going on 12 at the time Do you think my dad did the wrong thing? my mother was out shopping when this happened but i am sure she would not have approve of it. i think my dad told me to attack him because he was bullying me in the hotel room.

Unfourantly now in 2011 my brother is taller and stronger than me so he is the one bossing me about. we both still live with our parents and my dad has not changed much either. Even back then in 2001 my brother was still slightly taller than me

This is (at least) your second thread began on the idea that you screwed up in one trivial instance a really long time ago. I don't mean to sound at all rude by asking this, but why do you still care?

Jamesy (and likewise I don't mean to sound rude), jmnixon95 does have a good point.
Why do you still care?

You say:

Ok - it seems to break down to this:

• your Dad did the wrong thing
• your Dad did the right thing
  
• your Mum would not have approved
• your Mum would have approved
  
• you were right to think what you did about what your Dad said
• you were wrong to think what you did about what your Dad said

Pick one from each pair.

Now, bearing in mind this happened 10 years ago - what are you going to do?
Is deciding what happened going to be of any practical use to you now?
Has it helped resolved anything?
Does it give you a chance to let it go?