The hymen: tips needed

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Thanks, we appreciate that!

Based on all the information you girls have provided thus far, I feel confident that she and I can handle things just fine.

Thank you, all.

I've heard about lots of bleeding for first time sex.

From what I've heard, most women experience some pain the first time whether they have a hymen or not. But it can still be a meaningful and pleasant experience despite the pain.

If you use a lot of foreplay as well as lube, things should be fine. The bleeding isn't much at all.

Considering tampon uses could break it chances are its already broken (unless you are already know its not).

Just go in slow and rest there for a long time, don't force anything. The first time will not be typical sex, but just nice slow penetration.

Then the next tiem when she's relaxed you should have no trouble

There certainly are a lot of males posting in this thread, seeing as it is located in the "Women's discussion" forum.
I'll try not to let it bother me.

It's okay. They're not forbidden, exactly.... even though the section description says so. Why does it say that? Beats me.

Hello all ^^

My first time was rather painful going back on memory. The discomfort turn me off of the idea of intercourse for while. I didn't look forward to like my fiancee did.

Now lube and lots of foreplay makes our bedroom bonding better.

Best thing you can do Ragtime. Is try to make it pleasurble for her too. I love oral, try that.


Bardy

I'm sure you'll be sweet, just don't be a dick and thrust at the women without turning her on properley first. Then you should be fine.

My first time hurt so much I shoved the guy off of me. There wasn't alot of blood, but the first four or five times we had sex were too painful to really enjoy it.

My first time hurt so much I shoved the guy off of me. There wasn't alot of blood, but the first four or five times we had sex were too painful to really enjoy it.

Did you use Lube? A lot of the pain is from friction I've heard.

I think that I was probably born without one, so in a way I'm lucky. Mine has never been broken by tampons or my fingers and once a gynecologist stuck his index finger deep inside me and that never broke it either.

How do i know if i even have a hymen??? I have never had sex and dont use tampons. Sometimes when i put my finger in, its not painful at all, just slightly uncomfortable.
How do i know if i have one or not??

use a lot of lubricant, a gel lubricant.
Do it slowly, I mean it should take you 6-8 days.
slowly indeed,
one day introduce something, and then everyday after, a little bit more and so on.
do not try it all the first time by any means, that would hurt her.