pensieve wrote:
Is eleven too early?
For me it was! Although I wasn´t tall, and my face looked young, my breasts developed at age 11 and I was teased horribly about it. My period came about age 12; don´t know if that´s "normal" or not. For me it felt too early, I wasn´t looking forward to being a woman. I was kind of in denial.
In my case, the regular bullying turned into sexual bullying, but I wasn´t socially aware enough to notice the difference. For years, people in authority told me that when people teased me, they just wanted my "attention", and that I should just ignore them and they´d go away. Unfortunately, when the bullying turned into sexual bullying, I did what I was accustomed to doing, I just tried to ignore my tormenters. I guess that was about the worst thing to do......In retrospect, I realize that I let many people get away with things they shouldn´t have.
Did anyone else have this problem?
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