are you very orgasmic?

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I know that works for some people, but for me, it gets better the more often I do it.

When i'm having sex i can usually have multiple orgasms. My boyfriend can rub my feet and cause me to have an orgasm.

There are benefits to having unusual sensitivities...

I have had much the same thoughts/feelings. I'm insecure about many aspects of myself, even when with long-term partner.

I get stuck feeling shame, disgust, etc. about sex & physicality-though I enjoy sex on the occasions I can distract myself successfully. Seeing how parts look during sex turns me off, and makes me feel too self-conscious to do anything.

I'm female and I get performance anxiety before sex-because I'm still not comfortable with certain basic facts of life. I get "grossed-out" easily, and sex tends to be messy (if you're doing it right, one might say). I'm 33, am hopeful that I'll become less afraid of my own body & my experiences will continue to improve.

I'm going to tell you that not all mens orgasms are exactly the same. There are good ones, crappy ones, smooth ones, what i'm going to call sharp ones. But if the orgasms I experienced before I hit puberty were infact female orgasms, I can tell you that regardless of what kind of orgasms men have, they are SUCK compared to female ones. (many exceptions apply)

As sensitive as I am to ANY kind of touch, and as much as I need SEX with my partner WHEN I have one (which is now averaging every 3-5 years) I am TOTALLY lost for describing what I am TOTALLY lost on.

I had my first orgasim on my second year of sex, which happened to fall on my first sexual experience with a person who was totally insane about me. Until then I didn't even know I had a clitorus.

Now I CAN orgasm. Usually when sex has becomem unpleasurable enough to stop it.

Because too many people ask for my bed, while none of them actually like ME.

Luckily, I have a kid from the only person who ever really cared--even though that person passed on.

But sex? Mostly unenjoyable and lacking athleticism and honorable intention.
Though I've been known to slip.

It's a primal work out for me-no brain work. If I had wanted work-I would go to work.

I am highly orgasmic. Its lots of fun too, but then I love sex, particularly at the moment...

I find that with my wife it always varies. Sex is always about a complete connection. Most men find it hard especially younger men where the clit is and don't realise it takes longer for a woman to reach the peak. I remember when i was younger i needed guiding where to go but every women likes different things.

If a woman understands her body and know what she likes it will make a better connection.

cheers rob

I thought this was a Women's only forum and men weren't suppose to be here.

i wnjoy playing with myself and can achieve orgasms that ripple through my wholpe body bu doing so. it does seem to help with penetration these days, and i have this flagpole (the green one pictured on my profile pic) which i use.... i dont remove the american flag off it

I'm more highly orgasmic through clitoral stimulation unfortunately than vaginally. It kinda sucks.

I'm kinda like this, but I find it easier to have a vaginal orgasm after I've had a clitoral one. But then for me it doesn't really suck because I sometimes enjoy the clitoral ones more as they last longer.

I love orgasms, but it can sometimes take awhile to have one.

I am lucky. I can have multiple orgasms- like five in a row, without a problem, as long my husband is doing his job (or at the very least my vibrator). And i love them. I think the different ones are great. I have a high libido too- higher than my husband's actually- I could have sex a dozen times a week. It makes me happy- I need to have a good orgasm every so often otherwise I start to get alll moody and stuff.

I am somewhat orgasmic.

-SpaceCase

The only true way to judge your orgasmic abilities is by yourself. A woman can be perfectly orgasmic but never experience orgasm with her partner because he does not do the right things (or enable her to do the right things) to make it happen. Descriptions and definitions of female sexuality should always use self-pleasure as a baseline rather than attempting to define it through partnered sex, which is really a secondary form of sexuality from a female biological point of view. The "Hite Report" is a classic example of this approach; I highly recommend it as an eye-opener about the impact of masturbation on the development of female sexuality and the differences between women who do and women who don't.

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