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29 Apr 2012, 4:18 pm

Okay, I'm much calmer now. Talked to my bf, we discussed plans for what will happen when I get a test. Although I feel none of the usual signs of pregnancy and he says it's impossible since he finished nowhere near me. I'll still get a test next weekend unless it starts sometime within the next couple days. *sigh* In any event, it'll be okay. :)



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30 Apr 2012, 4:30 am

Not to scare you or anything but even if he didn't finish inside you, you can still get pregnant because sperm does leak out before then. But if you was using protection and it didn't split then there's a good chance you're not pregnant.
If you're not pregnant can you start walking instead of relying on your mum to take you everywhere? As if this happens again you can then go to a chemist with out her suspecting as it'll be normal for you to go out on your own. Or could your boyfriend get you the test? Just a couple of ideas as I know it can be stressful being late. :cry:



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30 Apr 2012, 5:20 am

yeah, chances are you are not pregnant. but i think everyone who is sexually active should have a "what if" plan in place. get the hard decisions out of the way before you have an emergency.


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30 Apr 2012, 5:58 am

My cycle just started during the night. I'm actually excited for it for a change. I'll text my bf as soon as he gets up so he won't have to worry anymore. We agreed that we'll keep it to foreplay from now on to prevent pregnancy scares in the future. So it was 11 days late this time, I blame the exercise changes. Phew....and the best part is, now it'll be out of the way before I go out of town this weekend to see my friends from college. Yaaaay! :lol:



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01 May 2012, 5:37 pm

Well, my period is never very regular. It's not regular enough. It's always more or less than four weeks.

But it's regular enough. The only time it was irregular was last year. I had it twice during four weeks. But I was really stressed out and I had been away for two weeks, in two places.


I am so paranoid I even wondered whether I could be pregnant. There's no way I could have been at any point in my life, but sometimes... I don't know... It's hard to explain. :lol:


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03 May 2012, 12:04 am

I had a pregnancy scare once when I was 20. My period was late and my ex also used protection and I was on birth control. Then I felt so happy when i got my period. I think the stress I was under because of my ex made it be late.



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03 May 2012, 6:05 am

League_Girl wrote:
I had a pregnancy scare once when I was 20. My period was late and my ex also used protection and I was on birth control. Then I felt so happy when i got my period. I think the stress I was under because of my ex made it be late.


Yeah, I actually laughed when I got it I was so happy. I've never been that happy to get my period before. :lol:



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03 May 2012, 2:48 pm

thank god you are not pregnant! :D

this is a perfect time to make a plan as to what you will do if you ever DO get pregnant, so that you don't have to panic if it happens again (well, you still might panic, but you wouldn't have to try to make a decision under extreme stress because you will already know what you are going to do).


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03 May 2012, 6:19 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
thank god you are not pregnant! :D

this is a perfect time to make a plan as to what you will do if you ever DO get pregnant, so that you don't have to panic if it happens again (well, you still might panic, but you wouldn't have to try to make a decision under extreme stress because you will already know what you are going to do).


I agree! I smiled and laughed when I saw it, I'm sure my family thought I was crazy. :lol:

Well, my bf and I say we're going to swear off intercourse until we're ready for all the consequences, for the sake of our sanity and finances. Foreplay only from now on, which is just fine for the both of us. :lol: