NewDawn wrote:
Hi! I'm new here and have been lurking to learn about AS since I heard that AS can manifest differently in women. I've had problems with social anxiety and sensitivity issues all my life, but never related them with AS. I seem to have taken the DSM-IV too seriously. I thought I couldn't possibly have AS because I have empathy and do understand non-verbal communication. What I can't deal with is the lying, the deceit and the backstabbing many people so often do. While I was reading through the forums, I got the strong impression that I'm not the only one having a hard time with this.
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Sounds like me. Not AS, but problems with social anxiety, which I've mostly overcome. Very sensitive, and highly emotional. Moderately gifted. Very high empathy and good communication skills. I too can't stand lying, deceit, backstabbing - I can't do them well myself, and I'm really only just learning about how others do it after getting badly hurt a few times. I have trusted too openly in the past and keep to a small circle. At age 29 I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder after three or four years of symptoms.
I still wonder whether I might have AS or something like that, but my high empathy seems to rule me out of the diagnosis.