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16 Oct 2012, 11:37 am

I couldn't do it. I need someone within my age range (I'm 45). I could go 4-5 years within my age. Otherwise it seems creepy, whether they're too old or too young.



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20 Oct 2012, 9:41 pm

Yep, I prefer toy boys!

I have never been with a guy more than 5 years younger than me though.

It was a bit scandalous in my teens but as I got older not such a big deal. My husband is 4 years younger than me and I was 29 when we were married in 1999.

Having an AS diagnosis now and looking back to then I believe that the younger guys were more on par with me both socially and sexually. Back then I just felt safer with them and had a better time.

I have also been in relationships with guys up to 3 years older than me so I do have a reference point to make the comparison.



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21 Oct 2012, 6:54 am

as a teen, I liked guys who were a little younger than me, by a year or two. There was one ex I had who was a couple years older than I and we really didn't get off well at all. But then I met bf, and he's a smidge younger than me (4 1/2 months lol). Just a smidge. :lol:



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21 Oct 2012, 10:50 am

My bestie is a cougar. She's close to my age and her dating age range is 18 - 29. That woul creep me ot big time, considering that I have two kids in that age range and in March the third will be in it. Then again, she's got a thing for my oldest son. Go figure.


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21 Oct 2012, 10:59 am

Yes I like dating younger men and I have in the past quite often dated younger men. It was partly due to looking younger than I am (good genes) and I like to date younger men. I am not against dating men older than me and it all just depdends. When I was 28 years old and in graduate school I dated a guy who was 23 years old. When I was 28 years old someone told me I did not look much more than 21 years old.


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22 Oct 2012, 6:24 pm

I've only dated someone younger than me once, a few years ago. He was three or four years younger than me, but was kind of crazy and impulsive, so it actually felt like the age difference was a lot bigger.

It was a lot of fun for a few weeks, then I got worn out and needed to end things. I enjoyed it for what it was, but couldn't see it going anywhere. We were just too different. I think differences in personality was the most significant factor, though, not age.



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25 Oct 2012, 8:28 am

I haven't dated in awhile (after going through a bad divorce) but I am now very interested in a younger man who is probably an aspie. I certainly wasn't looking for a younger man but I think I am open to anyone who I can make a connection with.



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01 Nov 2012, 7:03 am

Dating an old woman (from my POV) would be alright to me.


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01 Nov 2012, 9:51 am

equestriatola wrote:
Dating an old woman (from my POV) would be alright to me.


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01 Nov 2012, 6:31 pm

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher started this trend or so it seems. 8)


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01 Nov 2012, 7:29 pm

MjrMajorMajor wrote:
equestriatola wrote:
Dating an old woman (from my POV) would be alright to me.


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:?: :lol:


Or how about that old woman who degrades in The Shining? I just thought of that because my mum commented on it saying it was ageist. I mean, with someone crumbling in front of you there comes a point!!



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20 Jul 2013, 9:20 pm

Anybody else? :) I may be in a relationship soon, with an older woman.


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20 Jul 2013, 9:20 pm

MjrMajorMajor wrote:
equestriatola wrote:
Dating an old woman (from my POV) would be alright to me.


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Uh, what does that mean?


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21 Jul 2013, 7:01 am

equestriatola wrote:
MjrMajorMajor wrote:
equestriatola wrote:
Dating an old woman (from my POV) would be alright to me.


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:?: :lol:


Uh, what does that mean?


An old woman. :wink:



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21 Jul 2013, 7:26 am

I am 21 and I tend to prefer guys that are somewhat older than me. About 27-28 would be ideal.

I think it's because older guys tend to be a bit more confident.



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21 Jul 2013, 6:54 pm

I don't deliberately avoid men younger than me, but I always seem to end up with somebody older by a few years.