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Pokemon version feminist! XD

Joke aside...
(and I also have an authority issue... and I like freaking people out as a hobby... like... "you think I'm freaky, wait till you see THIS!" or "if I'm going to make a fool out of myself, it will be on my terms!" ah~ Enjoy~)

So... my true question is...

Do you have to deal with sexual harassment and how do you deal with this?

It could be because I am asexual so I don't speak sex-codes... for I am not interested either way... or it could be a lack of social thing sending the wrong signals or being too friendly... I used to see my best friend only every 6 months (he was probably aspies...) and I haven't seen my family in 14 years, so I had to get used to be familiar with strangers... and I have no boundaries to talk, but hell don't touch me...

Any advices and coping stuff? Something really bad happened in november last year... I got assaulted 4 times the same day... from hands all over to being dragged by the hairs... in public places during the day, to my best friend place... I still freak out and act out... sorry about that.

Ever happened to you? I smile a lot, apparently the body relaxes when smiling, like reverse psychology... and my boobs are huge... but I dress like a guy... even when I had a beard and tux as lincoln some old dude told me that I'm very pretty... and I asked my way to the hospital to a 70 year old and he asked right away to be naked with me in bed even if he can't get it up anymore...

I read that 80% of women get harassed... but... I can't help but feel like I could avoid it somehow... even when I don't make eye contact and mind my own business, someone grabbed my things and squeezed hard with both hands... and in a grocery store... an employee gave me his number after we talked about vegetables, to tell me "Yeah, I'm active sexually, when do we f**k!?" on the phone... when I said I'm asexual, not active nor attracted to humans... he said "You could at least suck me! It,s going to be fun, com'on!"

as*holes... *sharpening the knives*

I am warm and loving and open minded... My motto that fuel my attitude is that I don't want lies and hypocrite BS... I want people to show me what's truly deep in their hearts...

Well, men want to use us as sperm toilet for their excess junk...

*sigh~*

Any asexuals here?

Have a great time.

I think it should be socially and legally acceptable for a women to castrate a man if he doesn't leave her alone or tries to sexually violate her. Better his dick than the woman's mental, physical, and emotional health. Sexual assault and rape are crimes that have lifelong consequences.

I'm a transman, so I have a perspective most men do not have. I also see myself as demisexual, but I'm not asexual.

What country do you live in? In the United States, the guy who gave you his number in the grocery store, you can report him to corporate or the manager. For the guys who harass you on the street, you can take their picture and send it police. You could also carry pepper spray and don't be afraid to use it. As soon as he approaches you, spray and then call 911.

Also carry a pocket knife just in case you need to protect yourself from being raped.

Not all men are bad, and a lot of us are disgusted at the lowest slimeballs who do this to women. I hope you realize that they are nothing. There is nothing to distinguish them, so they feel their worth is their sexuality which only makes them seem more repulsive to general society.

If you don't take measures to protect yourself these types of men will only continue to try to harm you.

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OP was asked to edit her post, as it is too inflammatory and doesn't really relate to the topic. please don't respond to the title itself, thank you.

sorry this stuff keeps happening to you. sounds like you handle it well, let the perpetrators know they're out of bounds.

happy holidays.

Let's turn this around, shall we? The next time a woman sexually harasses a man (and it does happen, don't kid yourself into thinking that it doesn't), why don't we allow the man to cut off a woman's breasts or maybe even stab her in the area of the womb (just below the navel)? It's only fair.

I think that this idea is going in a rather dangerous direction, I would like to ask people to think. Would they view it as reasonable for a homophobic person to stab a gay man in the private parts if they encounter a gay man who tries to ask them out as a means of preventing a sex crime ?.

I would view such a knife attack on a gay man as a hate crime which should earn the knife thug a lengthy time in jail. If it is not reasonable for the homophobe to go and stab gay men then it is not reasonable for a woman to take the law into her own hands and stab a would be sex pest.

While I think it is reasonable for a woman to kick a would be sex attacker in the naughty bits as a means of stopping the crime, I think that an attempt for a person to dispense their own "punishments" is wrong. Punishments should be imposed by a court and not by a self appointed member of the public.

While it might be tempting to impose punishments such as cutting off a rapist's private parts, I see a problem that in miscarrages of justice that the punishment can not be reversed. While a fine can be repaid (with interest at the same rate as a credit card), and jail time can be compensated with money other punishments can not be reversed by a court. I would be interested to know how community service (unpaid and nasty work) can be reversed, that would be an interesting question.

I used to work in a nursing home years ago. There's an aide there that you remind me of. She got into all kinds of trouble, from falling down drunk and impaling herself on a fence to getting abused by men to getting arrested. She was so reckless that we all concluded she brought her troubles upon herself. Of course, if you talked to her, she'd say the world was out to get her and all "controlling men" need to be castrated. I feel bad for people like that because they are blind to the errors of their ways. They stay perpetually miserable. Drug abuse is always present and suicide is just an arm's length away. Sad.

Would you agree to a woman being sexually mutilated by a man that didn't leave him alone? And what if the woman has a skewed sense of reality and decides that a man is harassing her when she is actually being a pain in the neck? Or is outright lying?

There will be a lot of very angry, broken, vengeful people out there.

topic locked for sexism against men in the original post (saying "men want to use us as sperm toilet for their excess junk... ") and unnecessarily inflammatory thread title. i did ask people not to respond to the thread title as the OP was asked to edit it, but i understand it was quite upsetting.

OP was given a few hours to edit the post, and since it stands unedited and it is going downhill fast, i have locked it.