Catmint wrote:
Amy Farrah Fowler definitely, Bernadette I'm not so sure about - I find myself connecting with Amy a lot but not with Bernadette.
Abby in NCIS? Definitely!! ! I've come across something somewhere that suggests Ziva might be but I disagree, she's just from a *very* different world. I love that they have her even now getting idioms mixed up and not understanding them because sometimes the idiom gets explained to her and I'm like, "So THAT'S what it means!" and I find myself frequently agreeing with her when she says they're ridiculous. Several people say I'm a mix of those 2 characters (whereas about the only thing I can relate to with Kate is that she was Catholic and so am I). Ziva's my favourite character - Abby can be a bit much for me a lot of the time. The first time I saw NCIS (back before I got hooked on it - it's my current Aspie obsession/special interest) my Aspie-dar was screaming out about her! (I have Aspie-dar like some people have gay-dar - seriously, I can spot an Aspie a mile off!)
Back to Big Bang Theory, Amy sets my Aspie-dar off, Bernadette doesn't.
Apparently there's a character in Bones who's officially been declared Aspie. I can't comment because I've never watched it.
I agree with you.
Bernardette is adorable and nerdy, but she seems to have a very good grasp of social conventions and the ability to socialize - Howard met het because she was Penny's friend, after all.
Ziva's very NT, it's just that she's foreign so she has some difficulties because of that (although she could represent the
metaphor of aspies coming from another planet), but I bet she understands israeli idioms and needs to know how to navigate the social waters better than the average person to do all what she's done. Abby on the other hand, seems like the portrayal of an actual person - a person who's somewhat over the top, but still, and she has difficulties she can mask because she's in a supportive environment under Gibbs' overprotective wing, and because she has the gifted+pretty combo that makes a lot of her quirky behavior look cute and adorable in other people's eyes instead of a symptom that something's going on there.