Anyone here feel asexual?

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I hardly if ever feel attracted to anyone. I can enjoy sex though. My libido is always fluctuating.

The only time I'll ever feel asexual is when I die.

have always been the most extreme form of asexuality; never had any level of sexuality nor do understand it to any degree beyond the fact some like their own gender,some dont and some dont like anything to do with it, but both of these reasons are due to having intelectual disability and to a lesser degree severe autism.

As a teenager I used to hope that eventually I'd have a relationship but it just didn't happen and now I look back, that's a good thing because I wasn't the right kind of person for those kind of relationships. I'm funny with physical contact, I hated my first kiss and the idea of sex freaked me out. I guess I tend to think of myself as asexual.

I get well -meaning people think that they need to set me up with someone or they'll say that one day I'll find the right man. When will they understand that I just don't want that?

i honestly find sex to be gross would prefer not to engage in it(and i'm not even a clean freak, heck i hate doing chores such as making my bed.), and i'm afraid of getting into a relationship.

I've told my mom that i might be asexual and she was all like 'no, you are just a heterosexual christian girl who hasn't find the 'one' yet. What s**t are you reading on the internet? i thought you hated labels but yet you are labeling yourself with some dumb label.'

let's just say i've never brought that topic up again to her. at least my dad's response was less negative to my sexual orientation, but i guess you can say it had some homo/bi-phobic undertones(correct me if i'm wrong). his was 'oh i'm betting it's the sex being crammed down everyone's throat on the media that's made you like that. people react different to that stuff. heck i bet some of todays youth are gay/bisexual due to the sex saturated culture.'

i admit i paraphrased those 'quotes' since i don't remember what they said word by word verbatim.

Can you be asexual and still find people sexy or attractive?