Why do some women get mad that you have only been sexually

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Sex workers can be great people. Your hangups towards them are your own problem, not theirs.

Oh of coarse their role models. Dont make me laugh. They should find a better line of work.

The OP doesn't sound like the women are being mad over her wearing or not wearing certain clothes. It, instead, sounds like the woman are mad at her over the fact that she wasn't sexually harassed as much as they were. And this is so twisted. Its like being mad at someone for the fact that they "weren't" robbed, or "didn't" get a cancer. Doesn't it strike you as ill-wishing?

The only way to make sense of this is maybe being rape victim is something women bond over? So they "want" their sisters to be rape victims and that way they can "bond" with them over it? I heard the other day how there was a group of women trying to lose weight and one of them was more successful at weight loss than the others were, and then they got mad at that woman for the fact that she did so well.

Now, the other aspect of "bonding over being a rape victim" is the following. I read the other day, in a different context, that social groups aren't just defined by who "is" welcome but also by who "isn't". Now, the most obvious consequence of being a rape victim is lack of trust towards men -- either all men or some specific kind of men. So could it be that the woman that "wasn't" raped has failed to "exclude" the males/ specific kind of males from her life and, consequently, has failed to be "included" into that group?

As far as "specific kind of men" if you are talking about male rapists, that is fair and square. The problem is that the "red flags" that they are looking for are often misplaced. For example, male aspies are often being viewed of as potential rapists even though it would never cross their mind to do that. While the actual rapists are often going under the radar because they are such a smooth talkers. And this brings me to the point I was trying to make. Could it be that the women are trying to exclude male aspies and then they got mad at OP for the fact that she won't exclude them since she haven't had the experience that made the rest of them do that?

Who mentioned role models? I'm just saying Ally is a great person and she's a great person whether she's doing cam work, other sex work or working in some other field. Given that she has two disabled parents to take care of and is well-suited to work of that sort it makes sense that she'd invest her time into the work that provides the greatest returns for that investment.

You should find a less terrible attitude or at least express it in less caustic terms if you don't like facing wide-spread disagreement.

People only disagree cause they cant face the facts. Their are hard working women out there saving lives and then their is those who lie on their back, so tell me who has the most self respect? And deserves respect?

Ask your mother.

Well why does it matter to you what sort of work a woman does?

How original

Seriously, ask your mother what kind of woman has more self-respect, and what kind is more respected.

Women know these things.

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Luckily I only do it as a hobby and decided to use that money for my face. Botox and fillers.

I wouldn't do it for a living only because it would be hard work. I am sure if I was desperate for money if I had lost my job, I would try and put more effort into it while looking for a new job.

I dont have a mother.

That explains it, then.

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Hardly if i never got the chance to have a relationship with her.

So what other jobs do you treat with this level of disdain? Do you consider the rest of the service industry to be filled with people who lack self-respect?

You sound like you just have a problem with people who are able to profit off of something you've struggled with.



And also this.

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Stop responding.

It's a troll.

Moi?