lesbian/bisexual?

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I definitely have lesbian tendencies, but I just identify as queer. It's totally natural for females in a species to want to be together in a partnership and then become territorial of each other, in order to keep males away.

i'm a lesbian i think, i've dated one guy but i disliked it. i've always looked at girls though, so i'm assuming i'm more interested in girls.

I'm a bisexual apsie girl but i prefer my guys lol.

Dyke.

I'm Femme and my woman is Stone Butch.

We recently married, in Canada, after 23 years together. We have 10 year old twin girls.

Blueberries

My wife used to be bisexual. As a late developer, she wasn't attracted to boys in high school, but she liked the close friendships of girls, and that was able to segue into a bit of harmless experimentation. (She never had sex with a woman, though.) But she is now more attracted to men than to women -- and to a specific man (ahem) more than anyone else! She is also very shy, so it's not like she looks at specific girls or guys in public, and thinks, "Ya, I wish I could have some of that!" (We're very open about our stream of consciousness, our "raw thoughts in the moment", so I can say with confidence that she doesn't get crushes easily/impulsively.) She is incredibly, incredibly shy to people she doesn't already know.

Congratulations Blue.

Sometimes it's a matter of opportunity or circumstances and many of us go back and forth depending on how those circumstance and opportunities ebb and flow so I'm not sure if there really are any hard and fast rules about who or what we are.

True bisexual, 50/50 attracted to men and women, and usually gravitate toward either slightly effeminate men or slightly masculine females...or androgynous-looking people of either gender.

I used to refer to myself as trisexual....I'll try anything!

Straight-ish girl. I prefer men in relationships, but I usually lean towards femme guys. I enjoy beauty in both sexes and find both arousing for different reasons.

I my fairy... I mean... husband.

I'm a Pansexual....

I am, indeed, of this persuasion.

For me? It really depends. It's already hard enough trying to find the right person out there. Why try to narrow your criteria even more to a specific sex or gender? And why narrow it down even further by requiring it to be a sexual relationship as well?

I find the "romantic friendship" arrangement more my thing. Lincoln and his bodyguard Speed must have had something very special. Yes, there are those rare times when sharing a bed does not lead to the inevitable sneeze in the night.

Many people often suspect me of being gay. I've never really confirmed their suspicions though. I find myself fascinated by women not unlike myself however. I remember how my heart would race whenever I spied the handsome female security guard doing her rounds around the atrium... Maybe that is the sensation you get when you see something that is both familiar and novel. But was there a sexual attraction? I don't know. Maybe I just happen to like the butch aesthetic.

I don't like the political baggage that comes with declaring bi or lesbian status but I'd be lying if I said I was straight so I think I'll just check the "Other" box.

Lesbian. Came out at 15.

no classification.....makes no diff to me - i just do not think in terms of male/female/transgender trichotomies........ so that must make me just me.....and i am attracted to peoples brains first and bodies second. any package is ok with me actually.

what is however, difficult, is the consummation due to a combo of clutsy behaviours and sensory integration dysfunction.

(the ole days when i was high made it possible. these days i am somewhat restricted by the abovementioned which are not dampened by drugs/alcohol.

Confirmed lesbian