smudgy25 wrote:
Hi, this question may have been asked before but I am wondering how old you were when you received your diagnosis of AS?
My daughter is nearly 16 and I want to get her assessed, but at the same time she is in complete denial (her 13 yr old brother has moderate/severe autism) and my husband has traits of AS undiagnosed. This is an extremely tricky age and I don't want to hurt her about this that she would never forgive me or something in the future, because I have a feeling she would. I love her dearly but she has many issues.
By the way, my avator is one of my daughter's drawings - she has savant skills in art.
Thanks and would like to hear your stories of how you felt, whether your parents suspected AS in you? whether you knew yourself and how you felt.
Thanks for your help on this.
i was 16, closing in on 17 when i got my diagnosis, even though my mother's best friend (who has a nephew with AS) said when i was little (i'm talking, like 4-5) that i had all the classic traits
i too was in denial that there was anything different about me before my parents took me for testing. i have what my in-the-know friends argue as savant skills in vocal music and still photography. my dad is the same way, undiagnosed, but obviously a classic aspie.
my suggestion would be, yes, bring it up with her. getting a diagnosis at 16 is better than having issues because of not having support around that age for a long time after.
if she wants a girl to talk to, feel free to pm me!!
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