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18 Jan 2010, 9:49 pm

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I get it, I just don't agree with it. :P Sure a guy who's been out working on his car or something and comes in and has that manly smell, yeah, that's hot. But not for long. Then it's "okay, you can shower now. Uhm. Please!" :lol:


umm. . . .well, the whole idea is to act on the arousal to the manly smell, and then both of you can take the shower afterwards (or even during! :D ) strike while the iron is hot. :wink: and resolve it all in the lather.

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18 Jan 2010, 10:51 pm

I think I just have different standards of hygiene than most people. After all, I started adult life as a gutter punk living in the wilderness. :lol: And then in south Texas . . .

Of course I follow common social standards in the work environment. Would you take a librarian seriously if she looked and smelled like she had been hiking all day and drinking beer by bonfires at night, and wore tattered clothes, and had visible home-made tattoos?

So this applies only to my non-professional (i.e. social) life.

I'm attracted to people like me - people who aren't preoccupied with what they look like and aren't afraid to get dirty. The smells of dirt and healthy sweat are good. The smells of perfume and hair products are unattractive. I can't help it - that's the way I am. And I like having a partner who lives the same way.



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18 Jan 2010, 11:05 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
CelticGoddess wrote:
I get it, I just don't agree with it. :P Sure a guy who's been out working on his car or something and comes in and has that manly smell, yeah, that's hot. But not for long. Then it's "okay, you can shower now. Uhm. Please!" :lol:


umm. . . .well, the whole idea is to act on the arousal to the manly smell, and then both of you can take the shower afterwards (or even during! :D ) strike while the iron is hot. :wink: and resolve it all in the lather.

Merle


and goodness, again, this pheremone stimulation is not about hygiene, this is an intimate very sexual game between familiar consenting partners.


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18 Jan 2010, 11:18 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
and goodness, again, this pheremone stimulation is not about hygiene, this is an intimate very sexual game between familiar consenting partners.


I agree with that too.



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18 Jan 2010, 11:46 pm

I can stand stench but only if its a guy im totally into.

Otherwise have a shower, slob.



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19 Jan 2010, 4:20 pm

Magnus, if you like guys (boys in this case) who don't shower, then you'd LOVE me! :wink:

However, I don't wash my hair either: It has a thick layer of "permigrease"! :afro:



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19 Jan 2010, 5:10 pm

I know what you ladies are getting at...
a manly man doing manly things (chopping wood, fixing car, digging in dirt, building something) is hot HOT HOT! !

However, a pasty-faced un-shaven grease-ball who doesn't shower because he's too busy playing RPGs (see: my former roommate) is totally gross.

So it isn't body filth stench we're after, it's sweaty-strong-workin' man smell! (The man who will chop down wood and hunt down elk to feed the babies, from an evolutionary perspective.)



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20 Jan 2010, 10:33 am

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Magnus, if you like guys (boys in this case) who don't shower, then you'd LOVE me! :wink:

However, I don't wash my hair either: It has a thick layer of "permigrease"! :afro:




(:eew: GaCK! :eew:)

you have totally missed the point.


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20 Jan 2010, 2:12 pm

There is actually a reason for this, that is biological. They have found that genetic difference carries a pleasent scent for most women, the greater the genetic difference, the more pleasent the smell.

There was some science program with this on I saw awhile back. Very interesting.



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20 Jan 2010, 3:05 pm

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I find a guy sexier when he doesn't shower. I like the hard working look coupled by disinterest he has in appearance.


Ooh..then I should introduce you to my partner Flakey.
He smells the worst right after he has taken his bi-weekly shower :wink:

He has a natural aversion to regular bathing, and i have the feeling that it suits him.
He also does not wear deordorant.

He does not smell bad..he smells....comfortable....but he also sorta falls into the pasty..lay in bed for half the day hypnotized by laptop category....but he does have some rugged qualities...like he knows how to sail a boat, and has been all over the world...and he's intelligent....
He likes video games and young adult fantasy fiction.

One of his ladyfriends recently cut his hair so it is not the total matted mess it was....but he still doesn't brush it.

Some females tend to like him.



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20 Jan 2010, 8:12 pm

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He smells the worst right after he has taken his bi-weekly shower :wink:

What is he showering in, an outhouse? :? :lol:

I do have to agree though, the rugged manly man look and smell is just... *swoons*

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20 Jan 2010, 8:51 pm

not for me..I like prissy girly men



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23 Jan 2010, 12:05 am

Stinkypuppy wrote:
poopylungstuffing wrote:
He smells the worst right after he has taken his bi-weekly shower :wink:

What is he showering in, an outhouse? :? :lol:

I do have to agree though, the rugged manly man look and smell is just... *swoons*

:mrgreen:


A haunted house? Out, and don't you come back until you take a shower!

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BdlVcPxTd6k[/youtube]


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23 Jan 2010, 5:42 pm

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not for me..I like prissy girly men


I was reading an article that mentioned women who have taken The Pill for a long time have settled into a constant 'pregnant' attitude, and are more attracted to nurturing gentle type of men that a woman would want around during that time, and non Pill taking fertile women, forever jerked around by their hormones and pheremones like the virile dominant kind of man.
Until they get pregnant for real, then they want a nester. . .starting the cycle over when they are fertile again.

I thought it interesting.

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23 Jan 2010, 6:18 pm

ok, I guess I won't shower from now on then :lol:



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25 Jan 2010, 1:40 am

sinsboldly wrote:
poopylungstuffing wrote:
not for me..I like prissy girly men


I was reading an article that mentioned women who have taken The Pill for a long time have settled into a constant 'pregnant' attitude, and are more attracted to nurturing gentle type of men that a woman would want around during that time, and non Pill taking fertile women, forever jerked around by their hormones and pheremones like the virile dominant kind of man.
Until they get pregnant for real, then they want a nester. . .starting the cycle over when they are fertile again.

I thought it interesting.

Merle


The time I tried birth control like that, it was the patch and I was only on it for a few months but had awful horrible side effects..I cried every day and I gained a lot of weight... and then after that, my cycle was off kilter for a long while....I am naturally infertile, but I was on the patch "just in case"....I am most likely infertile due either to PCOS or scar tissue from bad teenage abortion.

Anyway, I kinda like effeminate men,,..I don't know why...

my main partner is not effeminate, but he is some variation of the gentle nurturing variety..
My other partner is not the kind I could really imagine being good at raising children,but he is of the AS-ish gender-queer variety...and I find his bi-gendered-ness to be very attractive.
I have an aversion to overly-masculine men, and can hardly see what they might see in me...as a thing I am sorta attracted to in a person is some level of potential compatibility.

My ASish friend has plenty testosterone...it is just distributed in funny ways...he has been balding since high school, has very big well shaped hands...he is very slender like an elf with a tiny girlish waist and he's wiry-muscular....with very little body hair...He is a meticulous bather because he has a full-time day job....but is the sort of person who has very little noticeable body odor anyway....maybe because of his hummingbird metabolism..

anywhoo..he is purdy...