hyperlexian wrote:
i'm really ashamed of this thread. some really shallow opinions here. seriously, judging men according to their looks? fine if you don't like certain guys - everybody doesn't have to get along. but saying nasty things about them and mocking them behind their backs? not cool.
This. The OP is just furthering the mean girl stereotype. So you don't find him attractive - so what? What does that have to do with him being a weirdo? How does it help anyone to make fun of him? Maybe he's an Aspie - he just doesn't know how to talk to people, and thinks that as long as you're reacting to him, he's gotten somewhere. He obviously has terrible interpersonal skills, and that may or may not be his fault.
More importantly, what if someone thought the same of you? Whether or not you heard them making fun of you, wouldn't it hurt?
it is more then just that. I don't know hot to explain in. Oh and the guy that asked us if we ever had sex, my friend told me that he told her he was going to rape her. it is not just that we don't like the way any of them look.