Put me down for hairy. Not crazy, gorilla, Robin-Williams in a fur coat hairy, but manly hairy. I got a bit of a thrill when OP said how much she liked running her hands through a hairy chest. Mmmm....
Facial hair too. Goatees are my favorite. I have yet to see a man -- with the exception of my brother and pro ball player who I can't recall the name of at the moment -- who didn't look sexy at all get out with a goatee. But if they can't pull that off, a regular moustache works too.
My attitude about hairy men is that when men mature from boyhood during puberty, one of the first things to happen is that they get more hair. It's what distinguishes the men from the boys in my book. So why get rid of it? But one important thing -- whatever facial hair is there has to be well-groomed. I want a bearded man, but not a guy who looks like he just crawled out from under the house.
I like long head hair too. Probably a holdover from the 70s when I was in high school, and hard rock bands, which I still love.