lady_katie wrote:
I've decided that I'm just going to start wearing whatever I want. I don't completely conform to fashion trends (nor could I, I'm so clueless), but I do make an effort. I think that I would be a lot happier just developing my own sense of fashion. For example, I've been wanting to wear cowboy boots (cowgirl?) for a long long time, but they aren't exactly trendy here. When I decided that I'm going to just do it anyway, I felt a lot happier about the concept of putting on shoes every day!
Anyway, I was wondering if any of you dress in unique ways, if you care at all?
I have always made my own style -- both because I'm an individual and because I find fashion trends pointless, objectifying to women, and often very ridiculous looking. Wear whatever you like. Don't let anyone deter you. If you want to wear cowboy boots, go ahead! They're your feet and no one else has any right whatsoever to tell you what to put on them or comment about it.
People may have something to say at first, but they always do. I had people make fun of me all the time in high school -- even people who would've called themselves my friends if you asked. But at the end of high school, all those people who made fun of me -- for reasons I can't begin to comprehend -- actually voted me "trendsetter" for our graduation yearbook. So, people may ridicule you but it's sometimes because they admire you, other times because they're jealous of your strength, and other times they're just stupid. You can't worry about what they think, though. There will always be someone displeased with what you do -- no matter what it is -- so as long as you aren't hurting anyone, do what makes you happy! If that's cowboy boots, then so be it!
I'm cheering you on!
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