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02 Jul 2021, 1:25 pm

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I find it unfair that women who dont seek the attention get caught up in the cat calling and such, as women who do dress revealing for the attention give real women a bad name.


Are women who dress in a revealing manner not real women? :chin:


Well i'm brutal honest so I would say no. The types who dress like that to seek attention as their is plenty out there.
A real woman has self respect and doesnt seek it, it is the women who do that gets real woman caught in the crosshairs.
For example these women who go for a night out, a vast majority dress in short dresses that reveal everything for the sole purpose to go on the pull and seek attention, you must have seen the types, fake tan, botox the lot, those are not real woman.



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02 Jul 2021, 1:33 pm

Shadow1888 wrote:
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I find it unfair that women who dont seek the attention get caught up in the cat calling and such, as women who do dress revealing for the attention give real women a bad name.


Are women who dress in a revealing manner not real women? :chin:


Well i'm brutal honest so I would say no. The types who dress like that to seek attention as their is plenty out there.
A real woman has self respect and doesnt seek it, it is the women who do that gets real woman caught in the crosshairs.
For example these women who go for a night out, a vast majority dress in short dresses that reveal everything for the sole purpose to go on the pull and seek attention, you must have seen the types, fake tan, botox the lot, those are not real woman.

What makes you say that women who dress like that don't have self respect? :scratch:

One could argue that someone who is comfortable enough with themselves and their desires to wear "revealing" clothing, dress how they like, and who feel assured in their ability to "attract attention" has plenty of self respect.

The issue here seems to be that you assume women who dress how they please, despite the fact people like you may drag them for it, and who feel confident in their ability to attract attention are the opposite of confident, when that's often not the case.



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02 Jul 2021, 1:36 pm

Shadow1888 wrote:
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I find it unfair that women who dont seek the attention get caught up in the cat calling and such, as women who do dress revealing for the attention give real women a bad name.


Are women who dress in a revealing manner not real women? :chin:


Well i'm brutal honest so I would say no. The types who dress like that to seek attention as their is plenty out there.
A real woman has self respect and doesnt seek it, it is the women who do that gets real woman caught in the crosshairs.
For example these women who go for a night out, a vast majority dress in short dresses that reveal everything for the sole purpose to go on the pull and seek attention, you must have seen the types, fake tan, botox the lot, those are not real woman.


You sound like your view is entirely based on misogynistic tropes with utterly no experience interacting with actual women.


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02 Jul 2021, 1:40 pm

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Are women who dress in a revealing manner not real women?
Well I'm brutal honest so I would say no...
↑ Sharia law, anyone?

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02 Jul 2021, 1:42 pm

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I find it unfair that women who dont seek the attention get caught up in the cat calling and such, as women who do dress revealing for the attention give real women a bad name.


Are women who dress in a revealing manner not real women? :chin:


Well i'm brutal honest so I would say no. The types who dress like that to seek attention as their is plenty out there.
A real woman has self respect and doesnt seek it, it is the women who do that gets real woman caught in the crosshairs.
For example these women who go for a night out, a vast majority dress in short dresses that reveal everything for the sole purpose to go on the pull and seek attention, you must have seen the types, fake tan, botox the lot, those are not real woman.

What makes you say that women who dress like that don't have self respect? :scratch:

One could argue that someone who is comfortable enough with themselves and their desires to wear "revealing" clothing, dress how they like, and who feel assured in their ability to "attract attention" has plenty of self respect.

The issue here seems to be that you assume women who dress how they please, despite the fact people like you may drag them for it, and who feel confident in their ability to attract attention are the opposite of confident, when that's often not the case.

What so your saying their is not 1 woman on this earh that dresses in a revealing manner for attention? And I mean to be gawped at by men and wanting more than to be looked at? And to want that kind of attention, one cant have any self respect.



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02 Jul 2021, 1:43 pm

Plus your clearly missunderstanding. I am not saying every woman.



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02 Jul 2021, 1:47 pm

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Plus your clearly misunderstanding. I am not saying every woman.
We do understand that it is too late for you to backpedal on your misogynistic post.


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02 Jul 2021, 1:53 pm

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Plus your clearly misunderstanding. I am not saying every woman.
We do understand that it is too late for you to backpedal on your misogynistic post.


Im hardly prejudice against woman i'm referring to the skanky types so dont pretend like their isnt any and start rallying together defending one another, if you read my posts properly you would have seen that. Women can dress revealing but like i said there is women who do it for the wrong attention.



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02 Jul 2021, 1:54 pm

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Plus your clearly misunderstanding. I am not saying every woman.
We do understand that it is too late for you to backpedal on your misogynistic post.


Im hardly prejudice against woman i'm referring to the skanky types so dont pretend like their isnt any and start rallying together defending one another, if you read my posts properly you would have seen that. Women can dress revealing but like i said there is women who do it for the wrong attention.


Translation: I'm hardly prejudice against woman who meet my expectations but the ones who aren't are all attention seeking skanks.

Unless, maybe I've misread? :nerdy:


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02 Jul 2021, 1:55 pm

Shadow1888 wrote:
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Plus your clearly misunderstanding. I am not saying every woman.
We do understand that it is too late for you to backpedal on your misogynistic post.
Im hardly prejudice against woman i'm referring to the skanky types so dont pretend like their isnt any and start rallying together defending one another, if you read my posts properly you would have seen that. Women can dress revealing but like i said there is women who do it for the wrong attention.
I think you should stop now...

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02 Jul 2021, 1:58 pm

Shadow1888 wrote:
HeroOfHyrule wrote:
Shadow1888 wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Shadow1888 wrote:
I find it unfair that women who dont seek the attention get caught up in the cat calling and such, as women who do dress revealing for the attention give real women a bad name.


Are women who dress in a revealing manner not real women? :chin:


Well i'm brutal honest so I would say no. The types who dress like that to seek attention as their is plenty out there.
A real woman has self respect and doesnt seek it, it is the women who do that gets real woman caught in the crosshairs.
For example these women who go for a night out, a vast majority dress in short dresses that reveal everything for the sole purpose to go on the pull and seek attention, you must have seen the types, fake tan, botox the lot, those are not real woman.

What makes you say that women who dress like that don't have self respect? :scratch:

One could argue that someone who is comfortable enough with themselves and their desires to wear "revealing" clothing, dress how they like, and who feel assured in their ability to "attract attention" has plenty of self respect.

The issue here seems to be that you assume women who dress how they please, despite the fact people like you may drag them for it, and who feel confident in their ability to attract attention are the opposite of confident, when that's often not the case.

What so your saying their is not 1 woman on this earh that dresses in a revealing manner for attention? And I mean to be gawped at by men and wanting more than to be looked at? And to want that kind of attention, one cant have any self respect.

"When that's often not the case," doesn't mean that I am saying all women do those things because they are confident. My entire point was that to assume that a woman lacks confidence because she dresses like that is odd, and that those behaviours can take a lot of confidence and self assurance to carry out.

Can you explain how a woman liking attention from men equates to having a lack of self respect?



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02 Jul 2021, 2:00 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
Shadow1888 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
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Plus your clearly misunderstanding. I am not saying every woman.
We do understand that it is too late for you to backpedal on your misogynistic post.


Im hardly prejudice against woman i'm referring to the skanky types so dont pretend like their isnt any and start rallying together defending one another, if you read my posts properly you would have seen that. Women can dress revealing but like i said there is women who do it for the wrong attention.


Translation: I'm hardly prejudice against woman who meet my expectations but the ones who aren't are all attention seeking skanks.

Unless, maybe I've misread? :nerdy:


You know i give up i have a hard time explaining but i try
Think what you want cause i aint going down that road again like the last forum. So say i'm prejudice but least i dont sympathise. And before you ask, dont bother cause you know what i mean. And i was right last time.



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02 Jul 2021, 2:03 pm

Shadow1888 wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Shadow1888 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Shadow1888 wrote:
Plus your clearly misunderstanding. I am not saying every woman.
We do understand that it is too late for you to backpedal on your misogynistic post.


Im hardly prejudice against woman i'm referring to the skanky types so dont pretend like their isnt any and start rallying together defending one another, if you read my posts properly you would have seen that. Women can dress revealing but like i said there is women who do it for the wrong attention.


Translation: I'm hardly prejudice against woman who meet my expectations but the ones who aren't are all attention seeking skanks.

Unless, maybe I've misread? :nerdy:


You know i give up i have a hard time explaining but i try
Think what you want cause i aint going down that road again like the last forum. So say i'm prejudice but least i dont sympathise. And before you ask, dont bother cause you know what i mean. And i was right last time.


I just call it like I see it. If what you're communicating isn't what you intent to communicate you should improve your communication skills instead of pretending like it's malicious to read what you chose to write.


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02 Jul 2021, 2:06 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
Shadow1888 wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Shadow1888 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Shadow1888 wrote:
Plus your clearly misunderstanding. I am not saying every woman.
We do understand that it is too late for you to backpedal on your misogynistic post.


Im hardly prejudice against woman i'm referring to the skanky types so dont pretend like their isnt any and start rallying together defending one another, if you read my posts properly you would have seen that. Women can dress revealing but like i said there is women who do it for the wrong attention.


Translation: I'm hardly prejudice against woman who meet my expectations but the ones who aren't are all attention seeking skanks.

Unless, maybe I've misread? :nerdy:



You know i give up i have a hard time explaining but i try
Think what you want cause i aint going down that road again like the last forum. So say i'm prejudice but least i dont sympathise. And before you ask, dont bother cause you know what i mean. And i was right last time.


I just call it like I see it. If what you're communicating isn't what you intent to communicate you should improve your communication skills instead of pretending like it's malicious to read what you chose to write.


It isnt malicious i was trying to explain something and it gets missinterpreted,



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02 Jul 2021, 2:14 pm

I think I see what went wrong here.

Sometimes I might want to signal that I'm available. I might dress up, show a bit of leg or cleavage.

That's a fact. Sometimes us women do that.

No one is saying that does not happen.

However, saying that I have no self respect if I do that is where the argument went south.



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02 Jul 2021, 2:19 pm

hurtloam wrote:
I think I see what went wrong here.

Sometimes I might want to signal that I'm available. I might dress up, show a bit of leg or cleavage.

That's a fact. Sometimes us women do that.

No one is saying that does not happen.

However, saying that I have no self respect if I do that is where the argument went south.


I didnt say all women have no self respect just the one's i referred too, skanks or whatever any of you call them. Is anyone here seriously not understanding who i am talking about?