Aspise girls and the mean boy friend syndrome.

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A statistic I read in the past says that those of us on the spectrum are more likely to experience abuse. Because of this I believe that more of us, male and female, will be more likely to be in abusive relationships that feel familiar.

In my past relationships I was berated, belittled and cheated on. I didn't know that it wasn't normal. I also think that aspies are a little more likely to realize the abuse.

I was involved with a ton of the "wrong men". I wanted to see the good in everyone, and love to "help" people, but then I ended up getting used... over and over. Some people would have described me as "desperate" perhaps, but I just got into some awful situations. Finally they either broke up with me or disappeared. I gave up on meeting anyone, and then met my fiance... couldn't be happier.