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cassandra
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24 Feb 2009, 8:31 am

I don't fit into the "female" stereotype either. I was always a tomboy, but I played with dolls as well.



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24 Feb 2009, 12:28 pm

Well I don't feel like I can really relate or identify with most of the female "roles".

I think I made a thread much similar to this and the word entity comes to mind. I never really felt like I could fit in with just being a gender....I sometimes wonder though if it's because I don't like the way most people stereotype or use gender as an excuse for why life is so bad or why they're compelled to one way or the other.

This might have a lot to do with my aspergers. I never really could fit into the "normal" role of this or that namely labels.


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25 Feb 2009, 6:34 am

I'm pretty sure I'd make a better man. The only really "girly" things I like are shoes and bright eyeshadow. I dress in boy's clothes--they're comfortable and i'm really short with with big boobs, so girl's clothes just look really wrong on me. I dread the day that I have to find a job where I have to wear real clothes.



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26 Feb 2009, 3:02 am

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I don't feel like any gender, I'm just a person, I'm not particularly feminine, but not masculine either.
And I usually wear men's clothes, because they look nice and they're comfortable
Me too. I'm pangendered. I feel I am both genders and at the same time neither.



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26 Feb 2009, 3:35 am

ShadesOfMe wrote:
MONKEY wrote:
I don't feel like any gender, I'm just a person, I'm not particularly feminine, but not masculine either.
And I usually wear men's clothes, because they look nice and they're comfortable
Me too. I'm pangendered. I feel I am both genders and at the same time neither.


So there's word for it afterall?

LOL.


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26 Feb 2009, 7:22 pm

Marcia wrote:
Now I think of it ... I have some furniture that could do with being moved! :wink:


Hmm, I am sensing there is a lot of furniture that needs moving?



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27 Feb 2009, 3:34 pm

I feel mainly female and a pretty femme but I have a bit of a masculine streak.



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05 Mar 2009, 5:46 pm

I feel like a man, all the time.


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12 Mar 2009, 4:36 am

I don't feel like I find into either gender, but I feel like I'm closer to being a man than a woman.



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12 Mar 2009, 4:52 am

I do cos I am born heterosexual :P



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12 Mar 2009, 11:44 am

^Heterosexual does not have that much to do with feeling like another gender or there lack of one's own gender.... :lol:


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12 Mar 2009, 2:48 pm

I understand both sexes and prefer male friends rather than female friends, but I am straight.


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12 Mar 2009, 3:09 pm

I feel more like a guy most of the time. I rarely (if ever) wear dresses/skirts and I'm getting to the point where I want to trade my knickers for y-fronts! Only thing missing is the ding-dong... (I have no boobs for some reason...)


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12 Mar 2009, 10:11 pm

Yeah. I'm that perpetual tomboy. I wear a little makeup, I have huge boobs but I don't often feel particularily feminine. I seem to identify more with male characteristics- I like to work on cars, I only own 2 dresses (bridesmaids) and no skirts. I'd rather do "guy things" like fish and play football than I would get "dolled" up. But at the same time I rather enjoy more typically feminine things like sewing, bubble baths, and the color pink. I feel like I'm in limbo and having a gender label doesn't matter to me (unless I need to use a public restroom).



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28 Mar 2009, 11:15 am

I actually feel like I am 65% male. When I was younger, I felt %90 like a man, that I started wearing boys clothes,underwear, and got a crew cut and Unfortunately I have this deep monotone voice, so I sound like a man, that I started questioning my gender and at one point got diagnosed with gender identity disorder. But just recently at age 29, I decided to bring in womanhood(with the help from my staff mentor Cassie at my residential program"), and started keeping my hair long, and now wear girly clothing and carry a "princess" purse. But I do not wear make up and jewelery because of my sensory problems, they make me feel uncomfortable. So far, it doing well for me and it actually lifted up my social confidence that I am no longer shy, and my voice is a little more feminine. I guess clothes make the woman,lol.

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28 Mar 2009, 2:28 pm

yes. I have frequently talked about feeling half-man and half-woman in a brain sense.

i also have a shallow and purely sexual attration to young twenty-ish or something women who are slim, with nice breasts and who have long hair down to their waists.
and i am not joking.