lesbian/bisexual?

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I considered turning lesbian after countless rejection's from males.

People shouldn't joke like that, as there actually are people like that. If I were to use you're wording, I am a bisexual woman in a man's body (and I quite hate that last part, and can't wait to have my ID say I am a woman so I can drop the man's body part altogether).

I'm bisexual, mostly attracted to women, but in a long-term relatoinship with a man.

My gaydar malfunctions too regularly for me to rely on it. I'm bi, but I lean more strongly towards men, especially somewhat effeminate ones. The problem with that, however, is that I often can't tell the difference between an effeminate man and a gay man. Or I'll develop a crush on a straight woman.

I am so GAY!

hmm...i am NOT SURE. i don't think its a person's sex that i'm attracted to. its just the person. i have had bfs and been attracted (emotionally and physically) to one female so i'm thinking Bi ?

I feel more comfortable around women in an intimate scenario and am aroused by the idea, but I guess I can't deal with the drama that being with women entails. As a female, I know how difficult they can be . I have to say that I get along better with men and men are much simpler creatures (Not necessarily simple in mind, but seem to be a lot more decisive).

I am male, in a ltr with a woman, tough fancied boys too when I was adolescent.

Interestingly, I am quite feminine. When I was young, kids teased me and took me for a girl. I played with girls a lot, though have no female siblings. At work I can get along with women better than with men.

I'm bi but since I'm happy married and not in an open relationship I have no plans to explore it.

I fell in love with someone wonderful who happens to be male. If he were female (or some combination of the two) I highly doubt it would make a difference.

I am pansexual, and I am currently with a guy. Want to explore females again, haven't done that since I was young.

I'm bi, but have never had the opportunity to be with a female. I was attracted to an AS female but we could not remain in contact.

i claim the label of pansexual. i don't care about gender, i focus on personality.

Straight but I lean toward guys.

mine is too complicated to explain

I been questioning this to myself for awhile so I just guess I am bi-curious. But I seriously have no idea. Dreamed of girls before, but always dated guys.

Me too. That exactly. I am head over heels in love with him and have been for 18 months but that does not make me straight - I am bi/pansexual all the way. To look at, you'd think I was a lesbian (short hair, baggy trousers, often to be found with my head inside a computer) and I love surprising people by telling them about my gorgeous male partner. We have a play around sometimes on a weekend with other wayward men and women ... tee hee!

The people who I see in the street and fancy are always the androgenous ones. If I can't tell if someone's a girl or a boy then they're bound to give me a hard-on (that's a gender-neutral sense of the term). Women with lived-in-looking faces that are creased and lined from a life of expressions are attractive to me. I think women are trained to keep their faces flat because that is deemed to be beautiful. But a dynamic, expressive face is what is beautiful to me (even if I can't always understand it's subtle implications). It is often only the androgynous women who have any lines, even at 40.