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Rose_in_Winter
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27 Feb 2010, 9:28 pm

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I fell in love with someone wonderful who happens to be male. If he were female (or some combination of the two) I highly doubt it would make a difference.


Me too. That exactly. I am head over heels in love with him and have been for 18 months but that does not make me straight.


Add me to the list! I have been with my husband monogamously for 7 years, and not really interested in anyone else. I have always thought of myself as 70/30 in favor of women, but most of my serious relationships have been with men. I think overall I find men more emotionally attractive and that is more important that looks. Most of the men I dated had an androgynous or feminine look, but my husband does not at all! He is extremely masculine in appearance!



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01 Mar 2010, 4:46 am

Lesbian, although I have had relationships with men in the past, but much more comfortable with women and I find women way more attractive than men.



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02 Mar 2010, 8:22 pm

Bi female. I find women more attractive, but I fell deeply in love with my husband whose gender actually seems to play a small role in our relationship. He could have two heads, I wouldn't care. I do think he's terribly handsome, too. I did have a long relationship with a female, and then a less committed girlfriend and some crushes, but they just didn't work out the way the one with my husband did. But that was a personality thing, not a gender or preference thing.

I have a lover who happens to be male - and I married him. :)



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09 Mar 2010, 10:05 pm

I like to think of myself as androgenous, as neither men nor women hold any real sexual attraction for me. Though I admit I have at one time or another had romantic relationships with both males and females, more male than female, but not for a long time. Seems the older I get the less and less I think about sex, which is funny because I'm supposed to be at my sexual peek right now for a woman.



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04 Apr 2010, 2:41 pm

Nice to see so many bisexual/lesbian aspies here on WP.
I didnt know there was so many :)



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04 Apr 2010, 7:47 pm

Bisexual, female, and about 50/50. I do find women overall sexier, but find that I get greater emotional fulfillment from men. I've dated men and women, and sometimes both at once. However, since I am married to a man and monogamous, I lead a heterosexual sex life.



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20 Apr 2010, 5:14 am

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Aaron, if you are a guy you can only be bi and like both men and women, straight or homosexual. Take your pick. You are physically unequipped to be a lesbian despite what you think you want.


ze said ze's "in a man's body" with no reference to gender other than identifying as lesbian, so ze's probably MtF? being lesbian or not isn't determined by "physical equipment" btw



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20 Apr 2010, 5:17 am

I'm pretty sure I'm bi, but I've never actually been with a ciswoman yet :-(



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20 Apr 2010, 5:29 am

Bisexual, I seem to find women more attractive but i just dont "click" with their peronalities, whereas i do easily with men. I am mostly attracted to personality, so i guess that means i prefer men :huh:



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28 May 2010, 2:04 am

SuPeR Lesbian Here. With loving GF of 11 years

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29 May 2010, 7:22 pm

Bisexual. I'ts not something I talk about much because it's a just label and I;m not so crazy about how trendy it's become but if anyone asked me I'd tell them. It's not something I hide.



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31 May 2010, 12:20 am

MotownDangerPants wrote:
Bisexual. I'ts not something I talk about much because it's a just label and I;m not so crazy about how trendy it's become but if anyone asked me I'd tell them. It's not something I hide.


I'm the same way. I wouldn't have to announce if I was straight, so I don't go announcing my sexual preferences. I suppose that's why everyone's so shocked that I've got something going on with a woman. :P



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24 Jun 2010, 12:24 pm

I am gay but never been with anyone thanks to me being either a) too damn picky or b) unable to connect with people :(



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25 Jun 2010, 9:08 am

almost everybody i know thinks i'm a lesbian. even my own mother. wich is kinda funny because i'm not. :lol:
for a while i was wondering if i might be bi, but i realized i'm probably not. while i am strangely very protective and affectionate with my girlfriends (by who i mean my friends who are girls) i've realized that i don't find them the least bit sexually attractive.


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26 Jun 2010, 2:42 pm

I suppose you could call me bi, but I think it's more bisexual man in a woman's body...


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27 Jun 2010, 5:16 am

Im a bi... dated a guy and that never went so well. I always have more of a thing for women.


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