What are some ways to make myself more sexually appealing?

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Well i'm defensive because I get it a lot .
I'm 5 2... so not a whole lot better. It'd be worse if I weren't fat as well though. My belly makes my boobs comparatively smaller looking
Though perhaps the fat makes me look "attainable" for the creeps... on the other hand my boobs wouldn't be more noticable if I were skinnier so wouldn't that leat to more creeps?
So confusing...

34B is probably not small, but too small. I mean bra, not boobs.
I was wearing 34DD before I changed it to 30J. My boobs are bigger than average, but not very big. In right bra size they're higher and my waist looks slimmer and my whole silhouette looks more proportional. My back is smooth, because all the "fat" is in cups. Great.

After buying right size lingerie, it's important to wear right clothes. See how Trinny and Susannah do this. See what's your colour type and wear right colours. F.e. I look better in dark winter colours than in pastels. You don't have to wear tight minis and high heels, it's more important to wear right fashion and colours, even in sporty style.Haircut is important too, damaged unshaped hair isn't sexy nor pretty. I don't have time and patience for stylise it, but it's in good condition and cut easy to wear (Spock hairdo last year, long straight cut hair with fringe now). Wear f.e. hairbands.

See a website about makeup and learn how to do it. Makeup can change a face without looking like a mask.

You're amazing Valoyossa...
It was one of your posts that made me realise I was a 34DD and not a 36C . My boobs are much happier now thanks to you!

I'm pale, but don't burn that easily Only if I stay outside for over an hour without any sunscreen I'll burn, which I think is pretty reasonable XD
I'm wearing a 40D, however I'm really starting to suspect that I should be in a DD I JUST bought a bunch of new bras, ugh, and now they're not fitting.
They fit enough that it's not noticable to others, but it bugs me when the band is the right size, but the cup is too small and the straps much too large :/
I can see what you mean about DD looking really big on somebody who's 5 feet, my mom looks just right in a C cup and she's just 5 feet.

I'm going back to school tomorrow, I hope that all the tips help. I plan on building up my sex appeal, first with the cute clothing and lip gloss, then a bit more makeup, etc.

I just got my hair cut into a really cute style, it's a bit short, but I think it looks awesome, and that's all that matters to me

You go girl!

-Try wearing makeup/more makeup. It doesn't have to be a lot...if you don't like how foundation feels (like me) then wear some eyeshadow, mascara, and lip gloss. I wear those things and a powder foundation and it's very tolerable. Oh and about the glasses...some guys don't like them, but there are lots of boys who have a glasses fetish or think they're sexy.

-Try different things with your hair. If you have curly hair, use a curling cream in it (I use curly sexy hair but I don't know where you get it). Or try straightening it or blow drying it sometime.

-You don't have to wear revealing clothes, just flattering ones. Some jeans that fit well are wonderful. Tight enough that you can see your body shape but not so tight that if you put a coin in the back pocket you can see the outline. If you want to wear short skirts, wear leggings underneath and it will cover your scar. If you have an hourglass shape (you said you were curvy) try a high waisted skirt with a belt at your waist, it makes you look really feminine. Or try the same thing with a dress.

It looks like you already got advice, but I already typed this out...

The thing is, I do wear very fitting clothes, it's just that they aren't "trendy" (aka skinny jeans, boyfriend jeans, graphic tees, etc) because my style has always been a bit older. Not like anicent, but that I'm a bit more professionally dressed (does that make sense). I do have some sexuality in my outfits, it's just not so damn blatant - I like subtle sexuality in my clothing.

One good thing was that today I went to the local Uni and multiple times I was treated like I was just like any other Uni kid, although I'm still in high school (it does help that I'm a year older then the rest of my peers, but still a good boost to the old self esteem) and the students seemed to be dressed a bit more like me.

I loath foundation, even powder, luckily I don't have many blemishes at all on my face.

I'm finding myself annoyed because I have a crush on this guy and he WON'T look at me as anything other then a friend even though we have a good chemistry. He's scared of his parents, so he won't date...but I still really like him. And all these tips haven't helped at all, at least what I've seen.
Bleh. Men suck. Don't have time for him this semester anyway, but I really like him and would like some signs back. He's in my class this semester, so I'll keep testing the waters, but ugh...

Brazillian wax ain't gonna do her any good if she's primarily interested in flirting.

I hope the ladies don't mind me intruding on their domain but the other forums are empty of new posts at he moment, so I wandered over in hopes I might be helpful around here.

As for color of clothing, jewelery, makeup, style of clothing, etc, most of that is dependant on your natural body. Find out what color looks best on you (are you a spring? fall? summer? winter? - Go to one of the big department stores and browse the cosmetics counter... when the money-grubber behind the counter asks you if she can help you find something, tell her outright that you don't know your 'season' - "I dunno, am I a summer or a fall?".

See what she says.

Then use a NT line like "Well thank you for your time, I may be back later this week" to get out of buying anything.

Confirm by going to another store and repeating this.
The Body Shop might work too, if you don't like the big stores.

A picture would help. But I don't want to sound like a pervert. Especially since I'm a bit too old for you. But it would help.

Incidently, I didn't have a kiss or a date until I was 20 and depending on how you define it, didn't have intercourse until I was 20 or 23... It seems pretty common to get tangled into that stuff later in life. Especially since you have the same standards I did / do - s'gotta be a long term, or nada.

I second/third finding out about your best colors. It can make an incredible difference. Also, I learned a lot from books about body shape. One is called H.O.A.X. (I know, funny name -- the idea is those are the four basic shapes.) I discovered I was an H (or rectangle in another system), which really surprised me. The book "what not to wear" is very helpful too, and much less mean than the t.v. show.

Though really the best way to choose clothes is by what makes you feel pretty. If you're uncomfortable in your clothes, it will show.

A classic book I highly recommend is Sex Tips for Girls by Cynthia Heimel. Again, funny name, great book. It's less about sex than it is about discovering your true self, gaining confidence, etc. and it's hilarious to boot.

I wish I could give you good advice but I have the same problem. Most people think I'm younger than I am because I'm small and apparently I have a young face. So most guys think of me as a "little sister" which is ANNOYING AS HELL

The biggest thing for me is dressing to look my age. I prefer to wear band shirts and shorts but if I'm feeling REALLY confident (which is a HUGE factor for men) then I try to dress better, and wear a little bit of eye makeup. I also got my hair cut short, kind of like a '60's style cut, which helps me look older. Seriously, just be confident. Believe me, it's hard when you have low self esteem, but seriously it helps!

Get a haircut that suits you is my first piece of advice.
Next - dye your hair a colour that is sassy. A lot of natural light brown hair is boring and unattractive - sorry but its the truth, some people look good with it but many people need to change their hair to look sassiest. A natural blonde might add a few lighter blonde highlights, a medium brown might add bits of different colours for more oomph etc.
Grab some clothes that are hip and suit your figure. Old fashioned is not attractive.
Don't overdo makeup and jewellry.
the most important thing is to feed your body good nutrients. You will shine. If you feed it junk food.. well rubbish in, rubbish out.

From what I have found most men like women who seem healthy.