MsMarginalized wrote:
tomboy4good; yes, eye-contact is a COPING SKILL that I've learned over years & years (I wasn't diagnosed until I was 41 y/old)
I think that for us women, this is a skill acquired from the school of hard knocks....at least I know my Dad would slap me around if I didn't look at him when I spoke to him/he was speaking to me....
I learned eye contact partly because my dad is so bad at it. I am 49 years old, & he still doesn't know what I look like. No joke! But there are times when I don't give proper eye contact, & am accused of lying. It happens all the time. I agree on the school of hard knocks though....I think I graduated with honors.
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