How old were you when you had your first proper kiss?

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02 Nov 2013, 12:46 pm

I don't even remember my "first proper kiss." I suddenly feel like there is something very wrong with me ...



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15 Nov 2013, 8:53 pm

15, and tasted like cigarettes. :eew: Not a very nice way to remember it. I did marry the guy though! 12+ years with 3 boys :D



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16 Nov 2013, 5:16 pm

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I've kissed a couple of boys when I was younger, but never on the lips.

I am 23 and had my first kiss a few weeks ago, with a guy that I really wanted to kiss (and he wanted to kiss me too). It was a proper kiss, on the lips.

I don't know if having your first kiss at 23 is ''too late'' for a first kiss, but I've always been quite fussy with guys so I wanted to wait 'til I guy I really liked was interested, so that the kiss can feel even better and also very memorable.

When was the first time you were ever kissed on the lips by a guy?


I am 25, and I have never been kissed on the lips/mouth before (only my cheek, and that was 10 years ago). I am very picky when it comes to guys that I am interested in as well, and I simply haven't found "the one" yet. When I feel comfortable enough, and I really want to state where I stand on how I feel about the guy I am interested in, yes I will probably initiate the kiss. Can't say it will be 'perfect' as I have never kissed anyone (or been kissed that way), but I figure the guy will more than appreciate the gesture and of course return it in kind.

Is kissing at 23 'too late' for a first kiss? No, I don't think so. Some people like taking their time and saving their kisses, that's all. It doesn't make it a bad thing. I'm very blessed with the fact that I have parents who are not pushy on the issue of me dating, in fact my Father is also an Aspie so he completely understands what I'm talking about when I say I am uninterested. My Mother isn't an Aspie, but she understands as well and it completely supportive of my decision. I digressed, I apologize, but there are my two cents anyway! :lol:



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16 Nov 2013, 5:40 pm

I was 14 years old and I thought it was pretty damn hot at the time.



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17 Nov 2013, 10:34 am

15. It took a long time to get the hang of it - I didn't much like it then and I don't much like it now.



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20 Nov 2013, 5:13 pm

16. It was alright until he tried to stick his tongue in my mouth which revolted me. I just didn't understand why he would want to, and I certainly wasn't going to reciprocate, even after he explained it was 'French kissing'.

The next time I was 19 and it was alot better then but I have never come to like tongues. I'm not the least bit bothered that it has been nearly 20 years since the last time anyone even tried. My sons excepted, but thats diffferent obviously, and even then I wasn't exactly delighted when they got sloppy.



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21 Nov 2013, 11:52 pm

21.I really enjoyed it once I got past the "that's another person's mouth" feeling.



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24 Nov 2013, 12:43 am

I kind of wish my first kiss would a little like this:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_sSjiZeoIU[/youtube]
But, sadly... Life doesn't work that way! D:

So, yeah. I've never kissed a guy. Don't know if that's just sad, or a really good thing...



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27 Nov 2013, 4:16 am

Before I had my first kiss, I used to watch the romantic films and be looking forward to it but when it came down to it, I didn't really like it. I was 14 and I don't remember feeling anything like I imagined I would, in fact I remember feeling quite uncomfortable and wanting it to be over.

I can be quite particular about physical contact anyway so I guess my reaction to kissing shouldn't have come as a total surprise to me.



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02 Dec 2013, 4:48 am

I first kissed a guy when I was 23. It was a random guy at a party (the first party I have been to). Not knowing how to handle parties and people, I ended up with a meaningless kiss. I hope I will never do something that stupid again.



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11 Dec 2013, 3:48 am

I was 15 and just thought "gross" and couldn't stop wiping my mouth with my sleeve once his back was turned. We were in a movie theatre, waiting for our movie to start. He was my first boyfriend who took things way too far and tried to get nude pictures from me... not happening since I'm way too fat, hate my looks and am aware of the consequences.



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11 Dec 2013, 5:01 am

10, but not a tongue kiss until 15. My first tongue kiss I was pushed into by my so-called friend at the time (I put up with years of sexual harassment from him) It was awful and although I was inexperienced I could tell he had no technique! He was too wet and didn't have nice breath, I had to spit and wipe my mouth when he wasn't looking.

My first kiss I was keen on was when I was 18, and I started to enjoy it the more I did it. I have to wipe my mouth afterwards, I don't like it lingering. That will probably offend someone in the future, but I'd warn them that I have to wipe my mouth beforehand.


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12 Dec 2013, 1:04 am

13. It was during Spin the Bottle. How original, right? :lol:



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12 Dec 2013, 6:04 am

I was 19. We couldn't kiss in the first few weeks of dating because he had a cold (the first of many he seemed to have). One afternoon he was getting ready to go out to dinner with me, I was waiting in the upstairs lounge area at his place, and he just came out of his room and jammed his tongue down my mouth then went back to getting ready. It was discombobulating and underwhelming.



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03 Jan 2014, 5:54 am

I was 17, almost 18. I was shaking all over because I found it very stressful.



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10 Jan 2014, 2:14 am

Still haven't had one yet. I got kissed on the head by a guy I sort of almost dated for about two weeks at 17, but I don't think that counts. Never been in a proper relationship. I think my NT sister had her first kiss at the age of 14/15.


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