lesbian/bisexual?

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this is exactly how i feel
i might be able to explain my sexuality a bit clearer now
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I'm a lesbian, me and my partner have been together for a year and are having a "joining" ceremony in august of 08 we share my son who is two and are trying for a baby which my partner will carry. Woah, ok a little over sharing there. Oh and we are both aspie! She has an official diagnosis, but the person I am supposed to see is out of the country right now, so i have to wait.

You're my hero! =D


-SpaceCase

My respect for gayb77 is very high right now.

Me too!

And as for me: Lesbian. I tried dating men. It was just another failed attempt at trying to be "normal."

My partner and I are planning our "commitment ceremony/wedding/thing" for 2010.

And if it weren't for my partner noticing that during my panic attacks I resembled Dustin Hoffman in Rain Man, I wouldn't be on this forum right now. Go her.

I like girls who like history
Is there a name for that

Good for her Sarah! I wish you both the best.

Same here!! I used to be in love with the numbers I pictured in my head. Odd numbers were boys, and even numbers were girls. I liked more even numbers than odd numbers. Also, when I was younger, i liked girls, because I couldn't stand any of the boys in my classes. This changed once I had my first big crush on a boy (i bothered him so much, I got into trouble). But I heard that nearly all young females are lesbians, until they start to like boys.

Good luck with that! How old are you?


-SpaceCase

I'm a lesbian. Very occasionally I find men attractive but I could never hold up a relationship with one, so I don't feel that's enough (in my case) to identify as bisexual. Unfortunately I did go through a failed relationship with a man and had to learn the hard way But I feel much better now that I know myself

I'm bisexual with a preference for women. I find some men attractive and wouldn't mind having a relationship with one, but I feel more attracted to women in general. I find myself fantasizing about women more than men as well... I like to check out girls from my favorite anime and videogame franchises.

From age 13 to the present, I've been obsessed with my former best friend. If the feelings had been mutual, I would've gladly spent the rest of my life with her. I am still so in love with her, even though she moved on a long time ago.

I'm bisexual )

All women are lesbian/bisexual.

I think coming out or identifying as bisexual is more of an Aspie/autistic thing. I know a lot of lesbians that refuse to identify as bisexual, though they privately will admit that's how they are. I know so-called straight women that are bisexual that refuse to acknowledge it. One reason I didn't really stick with women is that lesbians seemed hyper-NT. I didn't know about autism or Asperger's so, of course I didn't have this term back then. It just seemed that lesbians and gay men had this "code" that I couldn't for the life of me figure out. It didn't matter if I felt the same way, I didn't speak their language. And the community overall seemed very exclusive and rigid. I get along better with men and find them attractive enough, so that's what I've settled with.
After watching my son and his special needs friends, I've further reinforced my idea that sexual orientation (picking one or the other) these days is determined almost entirely through social conditioning. I'm one of those who believe most of us are bisexual by nature.

I think the terms 'gay,' 'straight' and 'bisexual' are useless anyway.

I say that because I have somewhat more feminine thoughts, and I'm not interested in the same things as most guys, but I'm still attracted to women.