fluffysaurus wrote:
Fancying women 20, even thirty years younger is fine, whether a man is in his 40's 70's or 90's. When you add the age difference on to someone who is not following the male/female rules though, which by their age they would know, then you begin to feel you are being targeted because you come across as stupid or gullible.
By male/female rules I am referring to - not trying to cheat on spouse, not following someone home and hiding in their back garden because they served you in a shop, not using the fact that you are very old and a woman cannot let go of the door she is holding open for you (without causing serious injury to you) to grab and squeeze her breasts.
None of these problems have been with men on the spectrum in fact I think it takes a lot of arrogance to try it on persistently with someone so much younger without any encouragement. And they have ALL been married.
I've had similar experiences with groping and such with older men, none with being followed thankfully, that would quite serious and scary.
Somewhat off topic... the most negative experiences have been with men of a similar age to me.
07 Apr 2018, 3:45 am
