when did you notice your social life sucked?

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When I was in High School. People tease me because I'm extremely emotional, and because I like supposedly wierd things. Its gotten to the point that none of my freinds really know what I like, apart from the obvious stuff I can't hide. Now whenever people ask me, I tell them I'm a loner.

While I wouldn't say my social life sucks, it certainly has been atypical. : )

I used to dig up rocks by myself in the corner of the playground in elementary school. As far as I can remember, people ignored me for the most part. Then my first friend thought she was a witch. That was fun.

When I was born. Nah. probably at the start of 1st grade. Sad, I know.

My parents began to let me know that my social life sucked when I was 5. They got mad at me for not having more friends. I had to pretend to have friends so that they would not get angry.

Holy crap dude. How mean of them.

right now for me.

i do have a group of friends,just they'd probably all tease me if they found out about my math skills(bad at math) or my writing skills.(i right good stories but my printing is crap.)

Social life?

I don't think I've ever really had one.

I was always kind of "different" since I was in 1st grade; but nobody started picking on me heavily until 5th Grade. I had my first bully and a bully just about every year after that until I went to a different school. Worst was 7th grade. One girl was merciless to me.

I was definitely a big loner, I would only make friends with other loners and nerds because they were the only people that seemed nice. Hence that stereotyped me as well.

I would ask other people why no one liked me and such. Some would say that I look "angry" or that I'd bury myself in my walkman and not socialize.

I always liked adults better since they seemed less judgemental. Teachers usually helped me I only had one or two jerks.

When I switched schools I started deliberately "smiling" a lot. It was so obnoxious because I didn't feel it but at least no one thought I was an angry b*** anymore simply because I wasn't constantly smiling.

Elementary to high school, I knew I was a loner and wasn't happy. By mid high school to now, I've stopped caring about having a social life.

preschool

Middle school, I think. There were some boys who sort of teased me but I just ignored them completely. Outside of school, though, I never had much of a social life, period. My parents actually wished that I'd go out more often, while other parents wished that their kids would go out less often!

I was in grade 5 when I noticed my social life was different. And yes, I thought it sucked. I used to get so depressed about it, even suicidal at times.

At 30, when I decided that I was happy to be socially withdrawn and liked being alone, I stopped being depressed because I no longer had to try to fit in. It was a relief and now I am quite happy.

Sucking the life out of you topic

My kids tease me all the time that my social life sucks. I say if I had a social life it would suck the life out of me.

Well in elementary school I had some friends but when junior high it, I had none. It was so hard fitting in with my peers. It was hard for me to pretend to fit in. Those were the most grueling years of my life.