Kaybee wrote:
I find bras aesthetically pleasing, but very uncomfortable. They're okay for an hour or two, but beyond that, they become a huge sensory issue and I start to find them maddening. A full day of wearing one ends up feeling somewhat painful (even if they fit properly).
That said, I wear them every time I go out because, even for the not-so-endowed such as myself, unless you're wearing multiple layers, it's noticeable when you're bra-less, and this is not socially acceptable. I only started wearing them a few years ago, though--I thought they were stupid and pointless when I was younger and didn't see what the fuss was all about. Of course, I've since learned that they are stupid and pointless (for those of us who aren't hugely-endowed or saggy), but it is an arbitrary social convention which must be obeyed (in the workplace, at least).
I post this only because, right now, I'm going crazy. >_<;; And am stuck in this state for many hours yet.
I wanted to write a very similar post.
I tried a sports bra but it actually gave me a rash. The material and my skin do not get along.
Rather than painful, bras cause me to itch a lot, so I take them off as soon as I get home, or as soon as I'm anywhere it doesn't matter that I am not wearing one.
I wear am a bit well-endowed, and bras
are more comfortable than not, at least kinesthetically. It's just that the material never gets along with my skin.