What type of guy do you like?

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At least my height or taller
Dark eyes and hair
Olive skin
Not scrawny, some muscles at least and fairly athletic
Some body hair
Take charge attitude, but with competence (not a take charge guy who can't fix things)
Adventurous
Not afraid of much
A personality at least as strong or preferably stronger than mine
Kinky, and who knows how to do kink
Not "fussy" about things
Good work ethic
Outgoing and enjoys socializing
Likes to take me out places and have fun
Very self confident
I also like a few tattoos, but that's negotiable
A bit of a "bad boy" but not enough of one where he goes to prison

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-Someone that I can hold a conversation with. I think with any relationship it's important to have a lot in common as far as interest goes.

-Gamer. It'd be absolutely no fun dating somebody who doesn't enjoy what I enjoy.

-Likes to eat. Not because I cook(I actually can't cook for crap), but because I enjoy eating.

-Sense of humor. I have a twisted, at times guy-like sense of humor.

I could care less about appearances. I don't want some Prince Charming Knight In Shining Armor. Looks don't last forever and I need a guy who knows that it's the same thing for women.

I think it's possible that my perfect man would be Ewan McGregor's character in Salmon Fishing in the Yemen. Yes, it's a recent movie, but that's pretty much what I've always wanted: adorably nerdy and awkward, with a sense of humor, doesn't take himself too seriously, not religious but open to the idea of faith in something.

For the record, it wouldn't hurt if he looked and sounded like Ewan McGregor as well...

Lets see:

Smart, intelligent, educated, socially liberal, respectful of me and my differences, thin to average built, has a feminine side in some kinda way, compassionate, someone that I can be best friends with, someone who can help me with social difficulties, some kinda nerd, logical thinker, someone who I have some similarities and some differences, someone who I have a deep connection with, someone that I can relax an be myself, someone that doesnt mind having an unconventional girl

Sweet, funny, shy, sensitive and caring guys

I like a guy who is smart and has a great sense of humour

I like firefighters.

I always liked very quiet guys. Being an aspie, you probably don't want anyone who jabbers all the time. Being smart and kind are good, too. Looks don't matter much to me, although they should be healthy.

Of course when it comes to marriage partner I didn't decide just with feelings. After a few initial dates, all his qualities would be carefully evaluated before I proceed further and invest more time. I AM thankful that most people don't choose their partner the way I do, because I'd never choose myself.

nerds, dorks, geeks. good hygine is a must, (brushes teeth, knows what soap is. ) no overwieght. drama free, WHITE. sorry I'm not into any other ethnicity. likes being at home, doesnt do drugs, (Light drinker ok) kind, non judgemental when it comes to my obvious lack of driving skills, Likes walking, Must like cold weather.

and sports

Screw the sex, I would just want to smoke and listen to music......so I have to find a stoner who also does does not see any reason to bother with sex and really likes music.

YES THANK YOU! Love this kind of man. That's why I am into younger guys, no pressure with them! I'm 26 but I've been hanging out with this 20 year old stoner. He's really cute and really smart and my NT friend thinks it's weird that I'm into him but he's sexy. I actually do enjoy sex but I'm not sure how to approach that with him. I think I will wait it out until we are super comfortable with each other. What do you think? We just listen to music and play music for now. It's been great. I'm more into his friendship though.

Currently in love with a different guy though but he doesnt live in my city and I don't get to see him often. I wish I could be with him instead (he's also younger than me) but it's difficult for us. He's the only person I can imagine having sex with right now.

Sure, let's wax lyrical for a bit!

My dream date would be interested in art, and knowledgeable enough to talk about it at length and bounce ideas off of. They would also enjoy going to art galleries as much as I do, and ideally have some sort of creative hobby they partake in (drawing, painting, writing), though it's not a requirement.
They'd have retained a sense of childlike wonder for the world around them, and be excited about discovering new things and meeting new people. No misanthropes!
They would be comfortable with being in a bar (though they don't have to drink) or seeing live music. Somewhat similar taste in music would help a lot here!
They'd read books regularly (and allow me to rifle through their collection), and revel in the pursuit of knowledge in general.
They would have traveled abroad or be open to travelling in the future, and be comfortable with going to exotic, out of the way locales to climb volcanoes with me (or would at least support me in my endeavors).
Most importantly, they have a goal (or multiple goals) in mind for the future that they are actively working towards, and want to tell me all about it (bonus points if it's something science or art oriented).

Politics wise, they would need to be left leaning and a supporter of both gay and women's rights (pro choice). I really don't care about their income, or if they're even employed, so long as they keep themselves busy. As for their appearance, I'm not as particular, but good hygiene is very important to me. Though if they're into fashion at all that would be great!

Obviously, when it comes down to it, sometimes you just fall for someone, even if they're the exact opposite of everything you usually go for.

I'm really into tall, lanky and slender beautiful men with large, sunken eyes that move like a willow branch in the wind and are musicians. Men that look kind of like Tim Burton characters. I like big hands and big eyes, big expressive eyes and patience and kindness and men that are fun and witty and smart-asses but sweet about it somehow that are good with kids and understand me. Easy-going and smooth. I'm into smokers. Don't like drinkers. I like younger guys. Im 26 and seem to be attracted to 19-22 year old men lately that's all I've been crushing on. Men my age can be boring or they expect me to act a certain way or something. Younger guys are fun and tend to listen to what you tell them to do and they can go at it for hours

But seriously, here's a description I made of this man Ive been hopelessly in love with for almost a year to no avail. Im' a teacher and composer too, that's why those things I like about him because we are very similar career wise that makes it easier to have a relationship, even though now we're only good friends:

1.kind
2.funny
3.patient
4.good with kids
5.understanding
6.romantic
7.apologetic at the right times
8.good listener
9.musician
10.composer
11.makes me feel at ease with myself
12.respectful of my endeavors
13.open minded
14.knows what I like & pays attention to it
15.knows how to make me feel wanted
16.makes me happy in the moment
the future isn't important with him
.i only think about the now
17. good teacher
18. has amazing taste in music & books
19. doesn't make me feel like ihave to prove
anything! i don't feel like i have to prove anything
to him or change…i can just BE
20. knows how to respond intellectually
through musical witticisms
21. tells you what he needs from you clearly
and outright
22. not overly concerned with politics
23. easygoing about life, calming, not anxious
or neurotic
24. believes in God and is spiritual, but not religious, and has good morals. Non judgemental.

I like someone who is
_ into me
_ liberal
_ has a similar taste in music as mine
_ not on facebook or at least not very active on it.

Dark haired, olive skinned, wears glasses, has stubble/less facial hair, medium height and build, academic, caring, patient, either Aspie or extreme NT.

Smart, nerdy, liberal, nice, and fun

the only kind of people I click instantly are outsiders... with special interests/ curiosity. i get along with many kinds of guys and gals but these are the only ones i am able to develop a romantic interest with, i think that was where the question was aimed at.

it's pretty interesting so many of you have quite a specific list of terms and conditions, even (unalterable, lifelong constant) non-character ones like height, hair, skin tone and other body features.