I have one question: How do you insert tampons when you're a virgin? My vagina in VERY tiny.
NursePlummer wrote:
Hi there. My name is Elaine and I am a Registered Nurse and one of the Tampax and Always women's health experts. I came across your email and want to help.
It is a personal decision about whether to use pads or tampons. The Always Ultra thin pads are so discrete and comfortable; you may want to try them. Tampax tampons give you the freedom and discretion to do whatever you'd like while you are menstruating, including swim. So you need to consider your lifestyle and come up with the type of product that will be best for you.
It can be uncomfortable to learn any new technique, and tampon insertion is a new technique for you. It may or may not be actually painful, but a totally inserted tampon is not felt and, therefore, is very comfortable. After a few times, the insertion becomes automatic and you really don't feel anything. Tampon insertion should be tried when you have your period.
As for which tampon to begin with, I recommend Tampax Pearls. I hear daily from girls that find these are the easiest to use. You should be using the lowest absorbency tampon for your flow and changing the tampon every 4-8 hours. If you find your tampon fully saturated before 4 hours, you should be using the next absorbent size. If you remove the tampon at 8 hours and still see white fiber on the tampon, your tampon is too absorbent...drop down one absorbency for the next time.
If you are doing it correctly and cannot insert a tampon it may be that your hymen, the thin membrane that partially covers and protects the opening to your vagina may be too small or too tight to allow the tampon in. If this is the problem you may have to stretch this opening. You can try with a little bit of K-Y Jelly on the tip of the applicator...the more you practice the more you will stretch the hymen. If you cannot stretch it yourself, you may want to ask your doctor for help.
This is a lot of information so if you have any further questions, please feel free to ask away.
All the best,
NurseElaine